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15 principles for managing up
When your boss loves you, you have options. Here's how to help your manager get what they need, so you get what you want.
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Wes Kao's Newsletter Holiday Gift Guide 2025
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How to give a senior leader feedback (without getting fired)
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Why high performers make assertions: The difference between insights, suggestions, and assertions
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How to be concise
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How I give the right amount of context (in any situation)
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Take 3 minutes to delete these words and improve your writing forever
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How to delegate while maintaining high standards
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[Fundamentals] Strategy, not self-expression
Aim for one goal: behavior change. Sweet, sweet behavior change. Everything else you might want to say? Keep it to yourself.
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How to get faster approval from your manager
Managing up 101: You can’t force your manager to approve your work. But you can embrace that it’s your responsibility to get better at securing their…
Oct 29, 2025
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Observe, assert, and validate (OAV)
Don’t only ask, "How can I be helpful?" Try to develop a point of view and assert what to do.
Oct 15, 2025
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Reverse impostor syndrome
Imposter syndrome is other people thinking you’re good, but you don’t believe it yourself. Reverse imposter syndrome is knowing you are good, but others…
Oct 1, 2025
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[Fundamentals] Start right before you get eaten by the bear
Fundamentals is a new series that highlights my core concepts in communication, leadership, and influence that I personally keep coming back to.
Sep 17, 2025
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Why "'no' is a complete sentence" is dangerous advice
If your colleague asks you to do a reasonable request that’s part of your job, and you simply turn say “no”... You are the jerk.
Sep 3, 2025
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Stop trying to change your manager
Because you don’t have the leverage to turn your manager into a different person. Here's what to do instead.
Aug 20, 2025
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How to be an empathetic manager (without becoming a therapist)
You don't need to absorb everyone’s frustrations. Here’s how to listen to grievances without having folks dump their frustrations onto you.
Aug 6, 2025
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To sound more sincere, do this
If you aren’t careful, you may come across as less sincere because your writing doesn’t translate your intent. Here’s how to make sure that doesn’t…
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