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The Problem With Affirmations
When “positive thinking” turns into self-abandonment and what actually works instead.
Jan 12
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Mollie Birney
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How to Repair After a Fight with Your Partner
The power of pausing, benefit of the doubt, and “same team” energy.
Dec 29, 2025
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Mollie Birney
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Patience Isn’t Penance
Why enduring the wrong things isn’t virtuous — and how to recognize what actually deserves your time, energy, and care this winter.
Dec 15, 2025
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Mollie Birney
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How We Fight (and Find Our Way Back)
Why the strongest relationships aren’t the ones without conflict — but the ones that know how to repair.
Dec 1, 2025
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Mollie Birney
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What We Get Wrong About Letting Go
Letting go isn’t about deleting your thoughts — it’s about changing how you meet them. A practical guide for the overthinkers, the feelers, and anyone…
Nov 19, 2025
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Mollie Birney
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The Meaning I Made: Finding My Part in What Wasn’t My Fault
Why freedom requires getting curious about the story we tell ourselves.
Nov 5, 2025
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Mollie Birney
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From Somebody to Nobody
When the identities that helped us feel safe and loved become the very thing that cages us, it's time to remember the freedom of being whole.
Oct 22, 2025
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Mollie Birney
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Welcome to Somebody (Un)Training
A space to loosen the grip of who we thought we had to be and reclaim the freedom that’s been ours all along.
Oct 8, 2025
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Mollie Birney
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Somebody (Un)Training
Notes from our human curriculum — reflections and tools for loosening the grip of who we thought we had to be, and reclaiming the freedom that’s been ours all along.
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