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Bob Weir, My Mom, and the Music That Sits With What We Carry
A short, normcore tale about what survives the long, strange trip
Jan 13
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Rebecca Soffer
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'My House Didn’t Burn in the Eaton Fire. So Why Don’t I Feel Lucky?'
What ambiguous loss looks like from the inside.
Jan 8
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Rebecca Soffer
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Nick Stentzel
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Festivus, Rob Reiner, and the Stories That Raised Me
An airing of grievances, a reckoning with cultural grief, and the small things that carried me through.
Dec 23, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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On Fury, Heartbreak, and Holding On
A few words on a devastating week, written from a room full of women trying to trying to find their footing in real time
Dec 15, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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Cyber Monday Shopping Lists for the Weary, Tender, and Still-Standing
Because grief doesn't take 30% off. Plus: Join the holiday gift swap, y la Rosalía divina
Dec 1, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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How long should grief last?
Mar 25, 2022
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How does it feel to lose a sibling?
Apr 11, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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Notes on empathy in times of catastrophe
Jan 16, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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Holding ourselves together while the news keeps breaking
Jul 18, 2025
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Shame Is Loud Right Now. Dr. Jessica Zucker Shows Us How to Shut It Down.
🎁 And our Winter Holiday gift swap is now OPEN! Get on it while you can.
Nov 19, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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Anderson Cooper on Armor, Guardrails, and the Hard Work of Feeling Everything
"I always believed I’d die at fifty. But I feel more alive now than ever. That’s the hope and promise of grief."
Oct 31, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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Marc Maron Is Caught in the Aftermath
Steven Feinartz’s 'Are We Good?' captures the WTF podcast host at his most exposed, where mourning trades jabs with wit.
Oct 3, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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When survival sounds like an Emmy-winning punchline
SNL writer Auguste White on how trauma, therapy, and comedy became inseparable (plus, that Maya Rudolph Mother's Day piece)
Sep 26, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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It's Mother's Day: Live, laugh, loss.
The issue you wish you never needed, my essay in TIME, and why you should see Idina Menzel on Broadway.
May 11, 2025
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Rebecca Soffer
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