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“Most people are only a few adjustments away from meeting their match.

How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts

A revolutionary dating framework that identifies what’s keeping you stuck—and gives you the exact tools to create the relationship you want.

Relationship expert and Renew Breakup Bootcamp founder Amy Chan has helped thousands transform their dating lives. Her surprising discovery: Most singles aren’t failing at love because they need years of therapy or a complete personality overhaul. They’re unknowingly repeating cycles—and once identified and interrupted, everything shifts.

In UNSINGLE, Chan introduces the Dating Funnel framework— a step-by-step system that pinpoints exactly where you’re getting stuck in the dating process and why. Whether you struggle to meet quality matches, relationships fizzle after a few dates, or you’re trapped in situationship cycles, this book offers a practical roadmap to upgrade your dating skills and heal the emotional blocks sabotaging connection.

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to turn casual dating into a committed relationship—the exact system to go from situationship to serious partnership
  • Why you keep dating the same type of person—and how your past patterns are blocking real love
  • How to spot red flags early (including why instant chemistry is often a warning sign)
  • The science-backed traits that predict lasting relationships—not attraction, wealth, or “the spark”
  • Why someone can love you but still be wrong for you—and how to walk away without guilt
  • How to break your dating patterns and finally attract emotionally healthy partners who want commitment
  • The attachment styles keeping you single—and how to rewire your relationship habits

Chan’s approach is refreshingly honest and often hilarious: Sometimes there’s a common thread running through your dating experiences—and she’s here to lovingly help you see it and shift it. Backed by behavioral science, real client success stories, and her signature blend of tough love and genuine warmth, UNSINGLE proves that lasting love isn’t about luck—it’s about learnable skills.

Endorsement for un-single. A fun, science-backed dating guide that will change your love life. From relationship expert and the "scientific Carrie Bradshaw"
Amy Chan
Highlights for un-single: Pinpoint where you get stuck in relationships. Identify and stop the dating patterns holding you back. Learn the tools to build healthy, lasting. Includes interactive quizzes, prompts, and assessments.
Endorsements for un-single:
"The love manual every smart single needs."
PATTI STANGER,
the Millionaire Matchmaker and founder of Millionaire's Club International
"If you're ready to stop settling
and start attracting, this book is for you." JILLIAN TURECKI,
New York Times bestselling author of It Begins with You and host of the Jillian on Love podcast
"Amy Chan gets it. She cuts through all the dating nonsense and gives you the real talk about love."
JOHN KIM, LMFT,
"The Angry Therapist" and author of / Used to Be a Miserable F*ck
Endorsements for un-single:
"The book I wish more people had in their hands before giving up on
dating—or on themselves." JESS JANZ, author of The Table Where We Meet
"A practical and encouraging guide that helps you make better choices and feel more hopeful about love."
TY TASHIRO, PhD,
psychologist and author of The Science of Happily Ever After

FAQ


Who is this book for?

UNSINGLE is for anyone ready to break unhealthy relationship patterns and learn how to date smarter. Whether you’re single, navigating the modern dating world, or in a relationship and wanting to build healthier dynamics, this book gives you practical, science-backed tools to create love that lasts.


How is UNSINGLE different from Breakup Bootcamp?

Breakup Bootcamp focused on healing after heartbreak. UNSINGLE builds on that foundation and helps you create healthy love moving forward. It’s the next chapter—about understanding attraction, shifting patterns, and building real compatibility.


Do I need to attend the Dating Bootcamp to benefit from the book?

Not at all! UNSINGLE was created as an on-hand guide based on the core teachings of the Bootcamp retreats. It brings the same science-backed insights and relationship tools into a format you can access anytime, anywhere. It’s a dating and relationship guide you can turn to whenever you need clarity and direction in your approach to love.


Will this book help me if I keep attracting the wrong partners?

Yes. UNSINGLE helps you uncover the subconscious patterns driving your attraction and teaches you how to rewire them. When you start dating from awareness instead of fear or habit, everything changes—including the kind of love you attract.

“Being great at dating and being great at maintaining a relationship require two very different skill sets. The former is a personality game. The latter is a character game.”

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Amy’s new book, UNSINGLE: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts, is out in April 2026. PREORDER NOW!
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