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Do Your Holidays Hurt?
My heart goes out to you, my friend.
Dec 12, 2025
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Mike Gerle
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Why We Think Sex is Bad
If we know the “why,” it just might become liberating again.
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The Community of Men.
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Yoga, Gonorrhea, and the Middle Way
A follow-up on my experiment in yoga-inspired sexual moderation
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Mike Gerle
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We’re a Coalition, Not a Community
Gays, It’s Time to Reclaim Our Voice
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Naked and Home Again
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Booking a Gay Erotic Massage
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The Community of Men.
Nov 11, 2025
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Mike Gerle
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Advice for Hot Guys
Dec 7, 2022
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Mike Gerle
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Sex Ed: Advice For Dudes Who Have Sex With Dudes
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Yoga, Gonorrhea, and the Middle Way
A follow-up on my experiment in yoga-inspired sexual moderation
Jul 31, 2025
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Mike Gerle
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Booking a Gay Erotic Massage
Tips on getting exactly what you want during a male-male erotic massage.
Jul 23, 2024
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Mike Gerle
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Gays Handcuff Themselves to the Standard Narrative
How deferring to the Standard Narrative strips gay men of our choices and our dignity
May 9, 2024
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Mike Gerle
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Do Your Holidays Hurt?
My heart goes out to you, my friend.
Dec 12, 2025
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Mike Gerle
16
4
3
Why We Think Sex is Bad
If we know the “why,” it just might become liberating again.
Nov 24, 2025
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Mike Gerle
23
8
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The Community of Men.
I really miss it.
Nov 11, 2025
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Mike Gerle
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Aging: Getting Gay Old
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Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality
A seasoned urban gay gives advice on the correlation between our hearts, minds, and hormones.
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