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Welcome to Finocchio. Welcome to Italy.
A dispatch from my first days in Milan, the gay metropolis I now call home.
Sep 17, 2025
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Uncut Gems
An ode to the type of “bananas” I love oh so very much.
Jan 13
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Time Lapse
I’m just a Type A girl, trying to survive in a Type B world.
Jan 7
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Trail Head
On a hiking trip in Cinque Terre with 20 other gay guys, I found more than just dazzling views and delicious food.
Dec 23, 2025
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Short Lived
Why do I always go so hard on making a home in a new place, even when it’s temporary?
Dec 16, 2025
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Slut Bunk
I took the ‘promiscuous’ train going annnnyyyywhereee.
Dec 9, 2025
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Heir Loom
Sorting through my late aunt’s belongings in Sicily, I witnessed close to a century of life, captured on film.
Dec 2, 2025
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Roman Ho-liday
Do as the Romans do? Well, I certainly did the Romans, at the very least.
Nov 25, 2025
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Werking Girl
The library is open! Find your next read with this roundup of delightful, insightful newsletters.
Nov 18, 2025
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Hot Dog
At a new-to-me club with a cheeky name, I regained my faith in Milan’s cruising culture.
Nov 11, 2025
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Practical Orientation
I’m giving you my insider, always-updated map of the best food, shopping and sights in Milan.
Nov 5, 2025
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Health Flair
My very gay, sometimes delightful experiences of the Italian healthcare system.
Oct 28, 2025
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Finocchio chronicles the adventures of Mike De Socio, a queer American living in Italy.
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