Autism in Females: Tony Attwood

I have seen many of Professor Tony Attwood’s presentations on Youtube, but found this half-hour speech, from the Annual Women’s Health Update, Sydney 2015, to be especially good.  While I knew a fair bit of the content (eg that a lot of Aspie girls like reading fiction), I didn’t know why that was so important/indicative (because the text clearly spells out what someone is thinking and feeling). Or that Aspie girls’ speech is often comprised of borrowed phrases from television/movies, and they repeat it in the accent they heard it, which is why some of them have unusual accents.

How friends should treat you

AspieAngles has written what I think is a sadly accurate article called “Nobody teaches us how friends should treat us“.  While Autistic people are taught the specifics of how they can and should be good friends to others, they are not taught how friends should treat them, and she referenced a survey showing that almost half of all Autistic adults surveyed had been abused by someone they had considered a close friend.

You know you’re a SN parent when…

I can relate to so many items on this list!  Let’s see now…

  • downloaded several hundred apps in the App Store “just to try” (wish I could delete them from my account once we’ve decided they’re not suitable for us!)
  • knowing more government departments by their acronym than a public servant
  • being more accepting of other parenting styles and decisions
  • you can recite the paid parking prices at the hospital
  • you refuse to commit to anything, ever, unless you’re standing in front of the calendar
  • you use sign language across a crowded shopping centre
  • you celebrate what everyone else just takes for granted, because you know what an achievement it actually is

… and plenty more that I’m not willing to admit in public!!

Changing Places toilets

These full-sized toileting facilities first came to my attention a couple of years ago, when Abi was too big for baby change tables, standard cubicles were far too small, and our only option was to change her on the floor of disabled toilets, using a garbage bag underneath her for some small measure of hygiene.  At that time, although Changing Places were growing in the UK, they were still very limited in Australia.  There is a campaign page on their website, for people to nominate locations where they would want to see such facilities.