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My Shadow
On the child I did not write about much, a lesson at the stove, and what it means to be seen by the one who watches you most.
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Feeling Seen
It's an act of love, taking photos of your loved ones.
Jun 25
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I Ran Nineteen Years of Myself Through the Matrix
What a script could measure about two decades of my writing, and what it could not.
Jun 23
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The Mute Button
I named one word at the front of a sentence, and fifty-five thousand people arrived. Most of what I learned came after I muted them.
Jun 22
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What The Hands Know
I was taught what to touch, what to want, what to recoil from. Now I am the one deciding what to set down in front of my children.
Jun 19
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Not All Indians
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Marking A Milestone Birthday
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A Birthday To Remember
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Remembering Renee Nicole Good
Jan 8
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I restacked a viral line about AI before I understood why it bothered me.
Jun 16
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A New Book Is Coming: Why Is My Skin Brown?
Colorism across continents, cousin-sisterhood, and a kid figuring out that belonging isn't the only thing worth wanting.
Jun 15
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The Color Sanguine
On marrying a man who dreams in a different tongue
Jun 12
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Openness as a Practice
On the radio with AFFCNY's After the Kids Move In
Jun 10
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The Long Count
On Nithya Raman, invisible labor, and the women still catching up
Jun 10
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Who Carries The Blame
On womanhood, the arc we didn't design, and the question no one made space for
Jun 7
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Hindsight is $2.99 This Weekend — Montgomery County Book Fest eBook Sale
Three days, eleven indie books, one short window — and Hindsight is part of it.
Jun 5
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Belonging, Mostly
Lakshmi G. Iyer is a novelist, essayist, and children's book author. Belonging, Mostly is her newsletter on adoption, Indian American identity, and family across color lines. lgiyer.com
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