Guiding and Equipping women to rebuild after toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, and the aftermath of high-conflict divorce—with lasting clarity, self-confidence, self-trust, and emotional and financial stability.
You broke free from a toxic or narcissistic relationship—or a messy divorce.
But have you reclaimed your identity, and gained clarity on your next steps?
Some of the first questions that may arise or you may be quietly carrying are:
Do you have a steady source of income? Are you looking to strengthen your financial footing or grow into a better-paying role or career opportunity?
Is your autopilot mind feeding constant negative thoughts, leaving your nervous system overwhelmed and your anxiety on high alert?
Has your confidence been shattered—leaving you lonely and unable to trust your own decisions or choices?
Do you feel stuck, as though your self-esteem has been deeply damaged leaving you drained of energy and unable to take action?
Are you fearful of entering a new love relationship—afraid the same unhealthy patterns may repeat themselves?
If these questions resonate with you, you are in the right place.
I help women move from emotional and financial aftermath and uncertainty into greater clarity, confidence, and stability—so they can rebuild life, love, and livelihood with stronger judgment and self-worth.
From Emotional Exhaustion to Lasting Peace and Stability
Leaving was the first act of courage. What comes next is different for every woman.
For some, the first need is to feel safer, financially steadier, and less overwhelmed by constant negative chatter of the brain and then work inside.
For others, it is time to rebuild more deeply, restoring self-worth, confidence, trust, finding new relationships and creating real emotional and mental stability, so you feel safe in your own life.
Wherever you begin, we start with what matters most and build from there. This work is about helping you feel more grounded in yourself, more secure in your choices, and more able to create a life that feels calm, solid, and truly your own.
With my guidance, you will begin to:
Restore your sense of self after years of doubt, erosion and emotional confusion
Rebuild self-esteem and inner confidence you can actually feel
Calm trauma-driven patterns and reactions that keep you stuck in old cycles
Strengthen emotional and financial stability so life feels more solid under your feet
Make clearer decisions, create healthier boundaries, form new relationships and move forward with greater self-trust
Design a future you believe in—on your own terms
How I Help you Rebuild
I meet you where you are!
Leaving the relationship may end one chapter.
The deeper rebuilding begins with the work you do after.
Not every woman begins in the same place.
Some women need support around emotional overload, financial footing, safety, or the practical realities of starting over. Others are ready to focus more directly on rebuilding self-worth, trust, boundaries, and healthier patterns in love and life.
Wherever you begin, the work is tailored to what you need most first.
My Signature System
4-R Journey; the process steps
Recovery & Roadmap
We begin with what needs attention first and map out the path ahead.
Reclaiming & Restoration
We help you rebuild self-worth, confidence, and greater stability in life.
Rebuilding & Rewiring
We shift old patterns, strengthen boundaries, and create healthier ways of thinking and relating.
Rising into Sovereignty
You step into clearer choices, stronger self-trust, and a life led by your own values.
Transformation here is long lasting, steady and deep—never rushed, never forced.
The 4-P Transformation™;
What value you gain from this Journey
Peace
A quieter mind, less overthinking, and more emotional steadiness.
Provision
Greater financial, emotional, and mental footing to support daily life.
Protection
Stronger boundaries, sharper discernment, and healthier choices in love and relationships.
Purpose
A more self-directed life rooted in your values, identity, and next chapter.
I’ve Been Where You Are—And I Understand What It Takes to Become Whole Again
I’m Kanchan Bhaskar, a transformational life coach, author, and advocate. I combine my own lived experience with a structured, practical coaching approach to help women rebuild after toxic relationships or a messy divorce—move beyond
the chaos of a difficult separation to reclaim your identity, set powerful new
boundaries, and build a future you actually love.
Why Transformational ? Because transformational work goes beneath the surface—beyond coping, quick fixes, or temporary relief. It helps you go inward, under the layers of fear, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs, so you can reconnect with who you truly are and begin to see what you are capable of becoming. When that awareness is followed by honest inner work and aligned action, the change is not superficial—it becomes lasting transformation. You do not just survive what happened to you. You grow beyond it, rebuild with greater clarity and strength, and begin to Thrive—as I did
I do not coach from theory alone. I integrate my lived experience with deep reflections, coaching insight and years of walking alongside other women on their rebuilding journey. I first shared my own story in my memoir, Leaving: How I Set Myself Free from an Abusive Marriage, and more recently in Thrive: Change Your Story. Change Your Life. Through my books and my coaching, I bring together the emotional truth of this journey with clear, practical steps women can actually take—from mental chaos, fear, and emotional damage toward clearer thinking, stronger judgment, healthier boundaries, and a more self-directed life.
My mission is simple:
No woman should have to walk this path alone.
A Voice You Can Trust
Not ready for coaching yet?
If you are not ready to talk yet, that is okay. You do not have to rush your process.
Sometimes the first step is not a call. It is simply slowing down, reading something that helps you feel seen, and beginning to understand what is happening inside you.
The fact that you are here already means something in you is paying attention. A part of you knows life cannot stay the same forever.
So begin gently. But begin.
Download my free guide—
Rebuild after the Break; A guide for women rebuilding after toxic relationships and let it be your first quiet step toward clearer thinking, greater steadiness, and a stronger connection with yourself. And when you feel ready for deeper support, I invite you to reach out.
You Don't Have to Heal Alone.
You've already done the hardest thing—you left. Now you deserve safety, stability, and a life that feels like it truly belongs to you.
If something in these words feels like your story, I invite you to take the next step that feels right for you—whether that's reading quietly or reaching out for support.
PROGRAM OVERVIEW
My personalized Program offers a deeply collaborative and supportive 1:1 on-line coaching
experience designed to meet you where you are and walk you toward the life you deserve.
You can choose one of the two Programs which will be aligned to your specific needs
Your 12-Week Transformational
Reset Journey
For women ready to reclaim their
lives and rise stronger.
Value this Program delivers to you:
This program is a focused reset track for women seeking deep mental and emotional healing. This isn’t just about surviving It’s about resetting your life, rewriting your story, and rising into the woman you were always meant to be more...
Over the 12 weeks, you'll begin to:
Release fear, self-doubt, and lingering pain
Rebuild unshakable confidence and inner resilience
Reclaim your self-worth, identity, and dignity
Take steps toward financial stability and independence
Find closure from past regrets and painful patterns
Strengthen your ability to set healthy boundaries and say No without guilt
Build deeper connections with others
Learn to make authentic decisions aligned with your true self
This is the power of transformational coaching – this is the power of you.
The 20-Week
Transcendental Path
From survival to self-actualization—guided by the Three Pillars of Transformation
Value this Program delivers to you:
This is more than a program. It is a sacred journey of awakening rooted in my Three Pillars: Belief in Self, Belief in the Universe, and Belief in Spirituality.The first 12 weeks focus on Belief in Self the transformational journey and the The next 8 weeks take you deeper, into the Transcendental Path more...
12 weeks of Transformational Journey is about reclaiming and rebuilding your Belief in Self:
Reclaiming your confidence, self-worth, and identity.
Restoring your emotional strength, clarity, and boundaries.
Building the foundation to stand tall in your truth.
The next 8 weeks take you deeper within you, into the Transcendental Path
Through Belief in the Universe, you’ll begin to trust your intuition, embrace acceptance, and let go through forgiveness and gratitude.
Through Belief in Spirituality, we explore practices like meditation, stillness, and surrender—not as a religion, but as a return to your essence.
This is a gentle, personalized journey, rooted in compassion and guided by presence granting you tranquility in body, mind and soul It’s not about becoming a saint. It’s about becoming a whole human being conscious, empowered, peaceful.
When you anchor into all three pillars and take aligned action, you begin to experience the essence of self-actualization your own version of Nirvana. Not as an idea, but as a lived truth.
About Me...
Survivor. Thriver. Advocate. Guide.
An author, transformational coach, advocate, and speaker. I’m a survivor turned thriver.
Like to call myself a warrior, a fighter. Breaking free and getting liberated from a toxic
relationship is not easy. However, with commitment, courage, mental resilience and a
clear roadmap, the journey towards freedom can become less tumultuous, more results
focused and purpose driven leading to a life you desire.
I was trapped in an abusive marriage with an alcoholic, angry, gas-lighter a
narcissist, for long. I had to find a way to escape and take my children to a safe place. I
crafted a blueprint of my journey ahead and started to build a ramp for our freedom. But
before getting on the journey, I had to reclaim and rebuild my confidence, resilience,
and a continued will to rise. There were roadblocks and challenges on the treacherous
journey, but I remained undeterred and kept marching ahead.
Your Free Empowerment Guide
Not ready to talk yet? That’s okay.
Begin with my beautifully crafted Empowerment Guide and Workbook: Reignite Your Life a reflective resource filled with tools, insights, and journaling prompts to help you begin your healing journey in your own time.
Reconnect with your voice.
Understand your pain.
Take your first step inward.
My memoir is available on Amazon
Leaving depicts the breathtaking journey of Kanchan Bhaskar, setting herself free from an abusive marriage. It is an empowering story of how—buoyed by her rekindled belief in self —Kanchan fought relentlessly to not only resurrect herself but turn into a thriver. It is a powerful guide to transformation and presents the reader with inspiration, fervor, and actionable insight, serving a testament to resilience and a beacon of progress for anyone seeking to reclaim their life.
Read More...
Thrive is the expanded version of Leaving, Kanchan Bhaskar’s powerful memoir of survival and self-liberation.
On Reader’s demand, this edition preserves the original story excerpts while focusing on In-depth insights of an experienced coach - adding growth reflections, take aways and call to action encompassing tools and exercises to heal, get empowered and Thrive.
Testimonials
(Transformational Reset Journey)
Testimonials
(Transcendental Path)
Client Voices
"I came in broken. I’m leaving grounded, confident, and finally… me again."
A.J., Texas
"This wasn’t just healing. It was coming home to myself."
N.N., San Diego
"I came in feeling lost and emotionally drained. Through Kanchan’s guidance, I began to see myself differently, stronger, clearer, and back in control of my life"
— 1:1 Coaching Client, IL
"What changed for me was not just healing, but clarity. I now make decisions with more confidence and approach relationships with a completely different mindset"
— 1:1 Coaching Client, CT
"Kanchan’s 4R/4P system provided deep insight and practical action steps. I feel emotionally stronger."
— 1:1 Coaching Client, UK
"After completing the 12-week program, I thought I was done. But I knew there was more—and the Transcendental Journey was exactly what I needed.
Kanchan’s guidance into mindfulness, stillness, surrender, and belief in something greater helped me reconnect with my spirit. I’ve forgiven, I’ve let go, and I’ve learned to trust again—not just others, but life itself.
For the first time in years, I wake up feeling grounded and whole. This journey brought me to my true self."
D.C., New Delhi
You’ve Come This Far. Now Let’s Begin.
You don’t have to figure it all out.
You don’t have to carry it alone.
If your spirit is whispering “maybe it’s time…”
Then trust that whisper. I’ll meet you there.
Frequently Asked Questions?
What's the difference between life coaching, personal development coaching and transformational coaching?
Life coaching focuses on achieving surface level, external goals. Personal growth coaching goes deeper than surface level, working on growth mindset and navigating challenges. It focuses on holistic development goals. Whereas Transformational coaching dives deeper inside you. It integrates both life coaching and personal growth coaching in its scope. It guides you through a profound inner journey—breaking limiting patterns, rewiring beliefs, and aligning you with your highest potential. It’s not just about progress—it’s about deep, lasting change from the inside out. Resulting in peace of body, mind and soul. Note: For further distinction between the three:
I've been in therapy-how is coaching different?
Therapy addresses mental health issues, emotional healing and past traumas which are not surface level but deeper like acute anxiety or acute depression, childhood traumas affecting the adult life, helping clients process experiences and manage psychological challenges. The focus is on healing the past to live in the present.. Coaching is forward-focused. Coaches do not diagnose, they empower. They meet the client where they are today and help them map a path to where they desire to be-emotionally, mentally, financially and sometimes spiritually.
What if I'm not sure I'm ready to leave my relationship yet?
You don’t have to be ready to leave in order to begin healing and plan forward. In fact, the most powerful change begins when you commit to yourself—right where you are. I’ll meet you with compassion, not pressure, and help you gain the clarity and strength to make decisions from a place of awareness, commitment and self worth.
Do you only coach women in toxic relationships, or can others seeking confidence and self worth work with you too?
Certainly! My niche is focussed on working with women who feel stuck, unseen, or unsure of their worth. If you are ready for deep, identity-level transformation, you are welcome in my space. Healing and growth are universal needs.
Do you coach only women?
While my core practice centers around women to maintain a focused niche, I deeply value the healing journeys of men and support those who resonate with my approach and story. You're welcome to reach out, and we’ll explore alignment together. So, the answer is, Yes, I do work with men—on a case-to-case basis.
Why you think you are best suited for Transformational coaching?
I’m not just a coach—I’m a woman who’s lived through the fire.
Years of domestic abuse. Silence. Escape. Survival.
And then… I rose. Thriver. Living life on my own terms.
I rebuilt my life from the ground up; emotionally, mentally, financially. And spiritually.
Today, I guide other women through that same transformation.
My 12-week 1:1 program isn’t just about mindset change.
It’s about healing what’s buried, reclaiming your worth, and rebuilding a life rooted in empowerment, joy, stability and purpose.
This isn’t just what I do. It’s who I am.
My journey into transformational coaching didn’t begin in a classroom, it began in life, rewiring, healing, growing and becoming a warrior to survive and then thrive.
With over 30 years as an HR professional in corporate and manufacturing sectors, I played a transformational role within organizations; developing leaders, coaching managers, and unlocking potential where others saw limits. I led strategic hiring, built high-performance cultures, and mentored professionals into leadership roles. My experience taught me not just how to identify talent but how to bring out the best in people.
I hold certifications as a business and life coach, and my academic foundation in Social Work (MSW) instilled in me the values of humility, compassion, and human worth. I am a people’s person; intuitive, grounded, and deeply empathetic. I trust my instincts, and years of hiring at senior levels have sharpened my ability to identify what makes someone a true fit for a role, a path, or a purpose.
Beyond credentials and career, I bring my spiritual path into my work. I’ve learned the transformative power of acceptance, gratitude, and forgiveness. I believe that intuition is a divine gift to begin with which can be honed with practice. I use it to guide my clients gently, but powerfully, toward their own awakening.
Having walked through personal adversity, led transformation in corporate spaces, and lived a life of both structure and soul, I now bring it all into one sacred space: coaching.
What does "Change Your Story" really mean?
It means reclaiming your narrative. Not the one defined by pain, others’ opinions, or past roles—but the story you choose to live now. Change Your Story is a call to transformation. It’s about rising from survival into soulful freedom and writing the next chapter on your own terms.
What exactly Women's Life Coaches Do?
A Women’s Life Coach helps women gain clarity, confidence, and balance in life. They guide clients to overcome limiting beliefs, improve relationships, navigate life transitions, and align with their purpose. Our approach blends transformational coaching with emotional healing & spiritual growth.
Who Can Benefit from a Women's Life Coach?
Women seeking personal or professional growth can benefit from a Women’s Life Coach. This includes those looking to gain clarity, boost confidence, improve relationships, achieve work-life balance, overcome limiting beliefs, or navigate major life transitions with emotional and spiritual support.
What's the difference between a life coach and a therapist?
A life coach focuses on setting goals, personal growth, and achieving future success, guiding clients to take actionable steps and build confidence. A therapist addresses mental health issues, emotional healing & past traumas, helping clients process experiences and manage psychological challenges.
What a Personal Development Coach Does?
A Personal Development Coach helps individuals enhance their skills, mindset, and overall potential. They guide clients in setting goals, improving confidence, overcoming limiting beliefs, and creating strategies for personal and professional growth, fostering self-awareness and long-term success.
What is the difference between a personal development coach and a life coach?
A life coach helps clients achieve specific life goals, improve balance & navigate transitions, focusing on overall well-being and motivation. A personal development coach emphasizes building skills, mindset & self-awareness to unlock potential and foster long-term personal and professional growth.
What does a personal development coach do?
A personal development coach helps individuals improve their skills, mindset, and self-awareness. They guide clients to set goals, overcome limiting beliefs, boost confidence, and create actionable strategies for personal and professional growth, fostering long-term success and fulfillment.
Frequently Asked Questions?
What if I'm not sure I'm ready to leave my relationship yet?
You don’t have to be ready to leave in order to begin healing and plan forward. In fact, the most powerful change begins when you commit to yourself—right where you are. I’ll meet you with compassion, not pressure, and help you gain the clarity and strength to make decisions from a place of awareness, commitment and self worth.
Why you think you are best suited for Transformational coaching?
I’m not just a coach—I’m a woman who’s lived through the fire.
Years of domestic abuse. Silence. Escape. Survival.
And then… I rose. Thriver. Living life on my own terms.
I rebuilt my life from the ground up; emotionally, mentally, financially. And spiritually.
Today, I guide other women through that same transformation.
My 12-week 1:1 program isn’t just about mindset change.
It’s about healing what’s buried, reclaiming your worth, and rebuilding a life rooted in empowerment, joy, stability and purpose.
This isn’t just what I do. It’s who I am.
My journey into transformational coaching didn’t begin in a classroom, it began in life, rewiring, healing, growing and becoming a warrior to survive and then thrive.
With over 30 years as an HR professional in corporate and manufacturing sectors, I played a transformational role within organizations; developing leaders, coaching managers, and unlocking potential where others saw limits. I led strategic hiring, built high-performance cultures, and mentored professionals into leadership roles. My experience taught me not just how to identify talent but how to bring out the best in people.
I hold certifications as a business and life coach, and my academic foundation in Social Work (MSW) instilled in me the values of humility, compassion, and human worth. I am a people’s person; intuitive, grounded, and deeply empathetic. I trust my instincts, and years of hiring at senior levels have sharpened my ability to identify what makes someone a true fit for a role, a path, or a purpose.
Beyond credentials and career, I bring my spiritual path into my work. I’ve learned the transformative power of acceptance, gratitude, and forgiveness. I believe that intuition is a divine gift to begin with which can be honed with practice. I use it to guide my clients gently, but powerfully, toward their own awakening.
Having walked through personal adversity, led transformation in corporate spaces, and lived a life of both structure and soul, I now bring it all into one sacred space: coaching.
What exactly Women's Life Coaches Do?
A Women’s Life Coach helps women gain clarity, confidence, and balance in life. They guide clients to overcome limiting beliefs, improve relationships, navigate life transitions, and align with their purpose. Our approach blends transformational coaching with emotional healing & spiritual growth.
Who Can Benefit from a Women's Life Coach?
Women seeking personal or professional growth can benefit from a Women’s Life Coach. This includes those looking to gain clarity, boost confidence, improve relationships, achieve work-life balance, overcome limiting beliefs, or navigate major life transitions with emotional and spiritual support.
For those who are ready to Rebuild and Rise!
You Don’t Have to Feel Alone and Heal Alone.
If your spirit is whispering “maybe it’s time…”
Then trust that whisper. I’ll meet you there.
There is no urgency— only an open door, whenever you are ready.
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