Doesnt Pay To Open Up
I have to post this. This happened to me last night and Im soo pissed. My coworker invited me to her house to go swimming last weekend. So a few days later SHE canceled. I was dissapointed. But what can you do?
So almost a week goes by and she RE invites me. So I said I dunno. The first tiime I had commented that she lives far away and it isnt worth me to drive home after a nite of drinking. She stated no problem..she has a spare bedroom. So I told her for the reinvite I didnt know. Kinda wanted to stay home its my drinking nite. So then she starts sayin how dissapointed she would be if I didnt come..Blah blah blah.
But I said ok. Went home to get some clothes n stuff. Cause I thought I was stayin the night. So she said..that her hubby wont be home and it will just be US GIRLS(remember that comment)
So I get there..time goes on. I have a few beers. She seems innna hurry. She takes a phone call from her hubby. She comes back and says that she didnt want him to know I was there. I have met her husband a few times so I said..why not? And she says that she wouldnt be able to get some private info from him. And I was like huh???? She wouldnt elaberate.
So we order Pizza and go out the the deck. We start to talk about different issues. And I talked about how I was Bi. And ALSO how that just because I was BI didnt mean I wanted every female around. Yanno? So we talk more then go to the pool.
So we sittin out there enjoyin the view talkin..and she gets a phone call. Shes yakkin for awhile and she says its her husbands neice. And she says..Yes Im here with Vickie..blah blah blah. And Im thinkin..well she dont want her hubby to know Im here but shes tellin his niece??? Im starting to get curious right about that time. Now this is where it gets MIND BLOWING. She starts sayin to her..what? you wanna come over and have a threesum with us??? And I just went to myself..What the FUCK IS GOIN ON HERE????
I work with this person I havent really done anything with her cept go to the local Applebees for a drink or too.
So then she gets off the phone. Im beginin to wonder whats going on when the phone rings AGAIN!! She starts talking blah blah blah. Then she says..You wanna come over? At this point I have no clue who shes talking too.
So she gets off the phone and I say..who was that? And she says thats my Massuse. So now..Im pissed. Cause I dont know what the hell is going on. She had said that she was getting tired. And I said..yer not pooping out on me are you? And she made comments how she goes to bed early..blah blah blah.
So now..its like..Its time to GO! She has made it perfectly clear that she doesnt want me there. Remember the Girls Nite???
Now here is a guy comming over that Ive never met. And her comments to the supposedly Niece about 3sums. I had NEVER EVER said that I wanted to be in a 3sum with this chick. Frankly she is totally not MY TYPE.
I was shaking by this time. Because I hate not being in control. Who knows what this person had planned. All I know is that I wasnt made aware of it!! I thought she was my friend. I just wanted to get the fuck outta there. I told her that I was getting dressed.
So Im ready to leave..and I call my ex..because here I was half in the bag..from drinkin and needing to find my way home..cause at that time I didnt know exactly where I was. I told him to stay by the phone. I was semi freakin out. Then the guy came over. Boy was that fast! I had dressed grabbed my beer and wasnt stayin for a min. He comes in the door and says IsleQween..Im like how the fuck does he know my screenname? My lic plate says IsleQwn..but would you get that from just those letters? I dunno but I didnt want any part of this bullshit. So I told her to walk me out. As we were going out she says..Vickie I worship my husband I wouldnt do anything to harm my marriage or sumptin to that..and I said..I dont give a shit what you do.
Anyhoo I made it home safe. I tried to explain to roomie what had just happened. And it really didnt sink in to him. Now a day later it did. My coworker called me this morning and left a message. And she sent me an email..this is what it said..
Vickie:
It concerns me that you may have gotten the wrong impression about our
get together last night. I only intended to go swimming and drink a
couple of beers. I never intended for it to become a sleep over. I am
not gay or bi. And never intended to have relations with you. I am
married! I will be your friend but that's it. And I really dont know
what "islequeen" stands for. I feel we need to talk so please call me.
Your Friend
Why is it..just because you mention you are bi..that they think you want them? Shes blaming me cause she dumped me to be with a GUY??? So blame me cause Im fuckin BI? What a fuckin bitch. It amazes me. I emailed her back and said if thats the kind of friend you are I dont want you as one. NEVER EVER did I say I wanted her or to have sex with her..that a Sleep over doesnt mean sex. It meant for me not to have to drive home drunk. What the fuck is wrong with people?
*shakes head*
Im just pissed that she wasnt human enough to say..well I wanted to be with him instead of you..now shes blaming me, insuating that I wanted to have sex with her. Its gonna be hard not to push my fist into her face when I get to work on monday..grrr
If anyone reads this..please give me your HONEST thoughts ok? This has upset me to no end
So almost a week goes by and she RE invites me. So I said I dunno. The first tiime I had commented that she lives far away and it isnt worth me to drive home after a nite of drinking. She stated no problem..she has a spare bedroom. So I told her for the reinvite I didnt know. Kinda wanted to stay home its my drinking nite. So then she starts sayin how dissapointed she would be if I didnt come..Blah blah blah.
But I said ok. Went home to get some clothes n stuff. Cause I thought I was stayin the night. So she said..that her hubby wont be home and it will just be US GIRLS(remember that comment)
So I get there..time goes on. I have a few beers. She seems innna hurry. She takes a phone call from her hubby. She comes back and says that she didnt want him to know I was there. I have met her husband a few times so I said..why not? And she says that she wouldnt be able to get some private info from him. And I was like huh???? She wouldnt elaberate.
So we order Pizza and go out the the deck. We start to talk about different issues. And I talked about how I was Bi. And ALSO how that just because I was BI didnt mean I wanted every female around. Yanno? So we talk more then go to the pool.
So we sittin out there enjoyin the view talkin..and she gets a phone call. Shes yakkin for awhile and she says its her husbands neice. And she says..Yes Im here with Vickie..blah blah blah. And Im thinkin..well she dont want her hubby to know Im here but shes tellin his niece??? Im starting to get curious right about that time. Now this is where it gets MIND BLOWING. She starts sayin to her..what? you wanna come over and have a threesum with us??? And I just went to myself..What the FUCK IS GOIN ON HERE????
I work with this person I havent really done anything with her cept go to the local Applebees for a drink or too.
So then she gets off the phone. Im beginin to wonder whats going on when the phone rings AGAIN!! She starts talking blah blah blah. Then she says..You wanna come over? At this point I have no clue who shes talking too.
So she gets off the phone and I say..who was that? And she says thats my Massuse. So now..Im pissed. Cause I dont know what the hell is going on. She had said that she was getting tired. And I said..yer not pooping out on me are you? And she made comments how she goes to bed early..blah blah blah.
So now..its like..Its time to GO! She has made it perfectly clear that she doesnt want me there. Remember the Girls Nite???
Now here is a guy comming over that Ive never met. And her comments to the supposedly Niece about 3sums. I had NEVER EVER said that I wanted to be in a 3sum with this chick. Frankly she is totally not MY TYPE.
I was shaking by this time. Because I hate not being in control. Who knows what this person had planned. All I know is that I wasnt made aware of it!! I thought she was my friend. I just wanted to get the fuck outta there. I told her that I was getting dressed.
So Im ready to leave..and I call my ex..because here I was half in the bag..from drinkin and needing to find my way home..cause at that time I didnt know exactly where I was. I told him to stay by the phone. I was semi freakin out. Then the guy came over. Boy was that fast! I had dressed grabbed my beer and wasnt stayin for a min. He comes in the door and says IsleQween..Im like how the fuck does he know my screenname? My lic plate says IsleQwn..but would you get that from just those letters? I dunno but I didnt want any part of this bullshit. So I told her to walk me out. As we were going out she says..Vickie I worship my husband I wouldnt do anything to harm my marriage or sumptin to that..and I said..I dont give a shit what you do.
Anyhoo I made it home safe. I tried to explain to roomie what had just happened. And it really didnt sink in to him. Now a day later it did. My coworker called me this morning and left a message. And she sent me an email..this is what it said..
Vickie:
It concerns me that you may have gotten the wrong impression about our
get together last night. I only intended to go swimming and drink a
couple of beers. I never intended for it to become a sleep over. I am
not gay or bi. And never intended to have relations with you. I am
married! I will be your friend but that's it. And I really dont know
what "islequeen" stands for. I feel we need to talk so please call me.
Your Friend
Why is it..just because you mention you are bi..that they think you want them? Shes blaming me cause she dumped me to be with a GUY??? So blame me cause Im fuckin BI? What a fuckin bitch. It amazes me. I emailed her back and said if thats the kind of friend you are I dont want you as one. NEVER EVER did I say I wanted her or to have sex with her..that a Sleep over doesnt mean sex. It meant for me not to have to drive home drunk. What the fuck is wrong with people?
*shakes head*
Im just pissed that she wasnt human enough to say..well I wanted to be with him instead of you..now shes blaming me, insuating that I wanted to have sex with her. Its gonna be hard not to push my fist into her face when I get to work on monday..grrr
If anyone reads this..please give me your HONEST thoughts ok? This has upset me to no end