Organised chaos
On creative mess and making peace with the process
The walls were crowded with torn-out magazine pages, each one intentionally pinned in place. Bookshelves sagged with paperbacks and art books, and on the floor, boxes and photographs pooled together as if they had been dropped mid-thought. Bruce Weber’s photograph of Sofia Coppola’s home office filled the screen at the family computer. I was fifteen, and I could not look away.
It wasn’t just the mess that spoke to me. It was the idea that creativity could be unruly and still beautiful. The image reached the part of me that always felt scattered and out of step with the neat, linear path the world seemed to expect. I could feel myself there, sifting through the piles until I found my next great idea. At fifteen, I would lose whole afternoons writing in my notebook or cutting images from magazines to make collages, following an idea without caring where it would lead. Back then, it never occurred to me to measure the value of that time against a finished product. The joy was in the making. I didn’t know then that I would spend years trying to tidy that part of myself away. I traded afternoons of aimless creation for to-do lists, deadlines, and the unspoken rule that a day’s worth is measured by what I can hold up and say I finished.
Years later, in her book Archive, Coppola would describe her stacks of scripts, notes, photographs, and clippings as her mind’s “organised chaos” and a reflection of her creative process. I had long been ashamed that the inside of my brain felt like her office. My mind is rarely neat. It bounces between ideas, tugging me toward the next spark before I have finished the last. I often feel like a room with a hundred half-open drawers, each one holding something I meant to come back to. From the outside, it can look like laziness or carelessness, so I have learned to tidy the visible surfaces and keep the mess tucked out of sight.
Coppola’s office felt like a permission slip, a reminder that the measure of a creative life is not how neatly it can be displayed. For years, I waited for someone else to grant me that kind of permission, as if legitimacy were something you earned by producing work that was consistent, marketable, and easy to understand. I told myself I must first prove my worth with visible, measurable success before I could justify working in the way that feels most natural to me. But hiding my chaos takes energy. The more I hide it, the more I reinforce the belief that there is something wrong with the way I am.
The world rewards polished, predictable output, not the slow burn of a thought that needs days, weeks, even months to ripen. One part of me yearns for the freedom to immerse myself in ideas without a plan. I know that is where my best work often begins. The other clings to the reassurance of structure. I fear that without it, I will disappear into the piles and never re-emerge. It is a constant negotiation between the part of me that wants to disappear into the thrill of discovery, and the part that wants to keep pace, be disciplined, productive, and always moving forward.
I know something needs to change, but I haven’t yet found a way to stop using my mess as proof that I am falling short. I am still learning to view the chaos of my process as an integral part of who I am.
I think about that girl at the family computer, the rush of recognition that shot through her when she first saw Coppola’s office. It was as if someone had turned a light on inside her and said, “Yes, I see it too.” I want to feel that again, not just in fleeting moments, but in the way I work and live. To see the mess of my process not as a flaw to manage or hide, but as my own kind of organised chaos, a space where beauty and possibility live. And maybe, one day, to leave the drawers open without apology.
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Loved reading this.
My creative process is very messy too — you should see my first drafts haha!