I'm using CS5. I know how to make my textures look blurred. However I can't seem to making them look soft.
a blurred texture by me

What I'm trying to archive is something like these:
http://expose42.deviantart.com/art/Never-Grow-Old-157856494?q=boost%3Apopular%20soft%20icon%20textures&qo=46
http://shirirul0ve.deviantart.com/art/Blissful-Textures-55998580?q=boost%3Apopular%20soft%20icon%20textures&qo=68
http://mystical-touch.deviantart.com/art/Texture-Set-Delicate-165300873?q=boost%3Apopular%20soft%20icon%20textures&qo=69