and i don't feel left out at all...
...or maybe if I can lie to myself enough, I can make it true. I want to say something sarcastic or sigh loudly or something, but that's not how I work. I'll wait to be given for an invitation before I join them, that way I know they want me there (the downside of this is that when people don't give me an invitation, I wind up thinking that they don't want me along).