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There's not a frog in my suitcase!
My lesson in perfectionism
Jan 15
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You’re doing a great job!
Plus my favorite tool for capturing compliments
Jan 8
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Santa and suffering
Holiday complexities
Dec 22, 2025
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A burst of certainty
Oct 24, 2025
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Ugh. Guess I’m learning this lesson again.
Jul 29, 2025
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Chronic illness
Aug 14, 2025
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I’m divorced.
Nov 6, 2025
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I do not wish to be perceived 🐱
Aug 5, 2025
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Why did I say that?
Sep 2, 2025
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A weepy day & permission to rest
Plus an unexpected turn of events
Dec 11, 2025
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Time to recalibrate, not accelerate
Planning the final weeks of the year
Dec 2, 2025
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Navigating small talk and conflict this Thanksgiving
The strategies I’m using to keep myself and my guests at ease
Nov 25, 2025
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Lelia Gowland
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Was I “too” vulnerable?
The compass I use to decide
Nov 20, 2025
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Lelia Gowland
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I’m divorced.
I never lied.
Nov 6, 2025
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Lelia Gowland
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The moving walkway is about to begin
Join me Thursday for a gentle reset before the holiday rush
Oct 29, 2025
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A burst of certainty
What I’m craving in this moment, and how I’m seeking it
Oct 24, 2025
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