Two task in the PR:

1. add enableWinograd API for Net
2. disable Winograd branch in try quantize func.

Winograd Convolution will effect the accuracy, which may lead to more errors in the calibration process of DNN on-fly-quantize (net.quantize()). This PR wants to disable the Winograd branch in convolution computation.

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