Fix for #21078, tests are coming to 4.x with #21088

ELU: https://github.com/onnx/onnx/blob/master/docs/Operators.md#elu

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• There is reference to original bug report and related work
• There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
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