Spatial Attention Module in YOLOv4.
From https://github.com/AlexeyAB/darknet/wiki/CFG-Parameters-in-the-different-layers

resolves : #18988
merge with extra : opencv/opencv_extra#861

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  Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
• The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake

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