🐛 Describe the bug

An in-order flag is being added to torch.utils.data.DataLoader, we should
a) ensure nothing breaks, due to inheritance
b) make sure the flag works as expected, and log a warning that state may not work reliably
c) figure out the state-management story for out-of-order iteration

see these 2 PRs for changes:
ttps://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/141833
pytorch/pytorch#142324

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