…ut the exception builder into chunks by using react lazy loading (elastic#99989)

## Summary

Trims down the list plugin size by breaking out the exception builder into a dedicated chunk by using React Suspense and React lazy loading.

Before this PR the page load bundle size was `260503`, after the page load bundle size will be `194132`:

You can calculate this through:
```ts
node ./scripts/build_kibana_platform_plugins --dist --focus lists
cat ./x-pack/plugins/lists/target/public/metrics.json
```

Before
```json
[
  {
    "group": "@kbn/optimizer bundle module count",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 227
  },
  {
    "group": "page load bundle size",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 260503, <--- Very large load bundle size
    "limit": 280504,
    "limitConfigPath": "packages/kbn-optimizer/limits.yml"
  },
  {
    "group": "async chunks size",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 0
  },
  {
    "group": "async chunk count",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 0
  },
  {
    "group": "miscellaneous assets size",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 0
  }
]
```

After:
```json
[
  {
    "group": "@kbn/optimizer bundle module count",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 227
  },
  {
    "group": "page load bundle size",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 194132, <--- Not as large bundle size
    "limit": 280504,
    "limitConfigPath": "packages/kbn-optimizer/limits.yml"
  },
  {
    "group": "async chunks size",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 70000
  },
  {
    "group": "async chunk count",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 1
  },
  {
    "group": "miscellaneous assets size",
    "id": "lists",
    "value": 0
  }
]
```

### Checklist

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- [x] [Unit or functional tests](https://www.elastic.co/guide/en/kibana/master/development-tests.html) were updated or added to match the most common scenarios