This revives and builds on the smoke tests for benchmarks introduced by @safesparrow here. It doesn't check anything new in FCS, it just verifies that the benchmarks themselves don't explode.

A few notes:

• I don't want to bring ALL the benchmark projects to ALL the solutions, hence I keep the dotnet build FSharp.Benchmarks.sln to see that everything compiles and then do build.cmd so that we can execute FCS bench smoke tests. This is not a big waste of time
• Since some benchmarks are very long even for single execution - and we don't want this job to be the longest - I classify benchmarks into short and long categories and run only short ones (that's the majority though)
• I'd rather just have long category and run everything else, but this doesn't seem to be possible yet (and filtering by name would be too much hardcoding)
• The fsharp category is removed since it wasn't universal and wasn't used
• The script itself is renamed, moved and improved (since the BDN CLI is improved, e.g. job Dry supersedes hand-specifying all the job parameters)
• We also stop on the first broken benchmark

Running this immediately detected a broken benchmark (assuming Giraffe presence on the machine) so it's disabled.

The smoke testing now takes about 18 minutes, the whole job around 35 minutes. So it's not the longest - and we don't want it to be, hence if needed we can mark more benchmarks as "slow" and not smoke test them.

closes #16407
closes #16408