server: cockroach connect does not negotiate peers across NAT properly #61238
Description
Part of #60632
During the initial handshake, the trust leader receives the address of each peer as part of the trust handshake.
However, each peer populates the acknowledgement for the challenge using its listening address, not its advertised address.
So if the connection is happening across a NAT boundary, the trust leader will be unable to connect back to its the trusted peers.