1. Add a new class MemCounter.
2. MemTracker and MemTrackerLimiter no longer have inheritance and
dependencies.
3. MemTrackerLimiter is used to count process memory, the BE web page
`/mem_tracker` also only displays MemTrackerLimiter.
4. MemTracker is used to count the memory of operators and some data
structures. It is not counted in the process memory and is used for
logic control and profile.

In addition, it seems that the crash is caused by memory abnormality,
not sure whether this PR can fix the problem, but this will help locate
the problem and more elegant.

```
==6641==ERROR: AddressSanitizer: heap-use-after-free on address 0x603000980e70 at pc 0x559be21880be bp 0x7fd7cfc75070 sp 0x7fd7cfc75068
READ of size 8 at 0x603000980e70 thread T1453 (memory_maintena)
    #0 0x559be21880bd in std::__atomic_base<long>::load(std::memory_order) const /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/atomic_base.h:481:9
    #1 0x559be21880bd in doris::MemTracker::MemCounter::current_value() const /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/runtime/memory/mem_tracker.h:139:63
    apache#2 0x559be21880bd in doris::MemTracker::consumption() const /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/runtime/memory/mem_tracker.h:165:56
    apache#3 0x559be3985133 in doris::MemTrackerLimiter::refresh_global_counter() /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/runtime/memory/mem_tracker_limiter.cpp:245:59
    apache#4 0x559bdfcd52d5 in doris::Daemon::memory_maintenance_thread() /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/common/daemon.cpp:239:13
    apache#5 0x559be40e6c17 in doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:498:5
    apache#6 0x7fdf563e3ac2 in start_thread nptl/pthread_create.c:442:8
    apache#7 0x7fdf5647584f  misc/../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone3.S:81

0x603000980e74 is located 0 bytes after 20-byte region [0x603000980e60,0x603000980e74)
04:19:48   freed by thread T1491 (Scan_normal [wo) here:
04:19:48       #0 0x559bdfb0dd9d in operator delete(void*) (/mnt/hdd01/ci/master-deploy/be/lib/doris_be+0x33546d9d) (BuildId: f170e92ad3c55512)
04:19:48       #1 0x559bdfb1d42b in __gnu_cxx::new_allocator<char>::deallocate(char*, unsigned long) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/ext/new_allocator.h:139:2
04:19:48       apache#2 0x559bdfb1d42b in std::allocator<char>::deallocate(char*, unsigned long) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/allocator.h:187:27
04:19:48       apache#3 0x559bdfb1d42b in std::allocator_traits<std::allocator<char>>::deallocate(std::allocator<char>&, char*, unsigned long) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/alloc_traits.h:492:13
04:19:48       apache#4 0x559bdfb1d42b in std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>::_M_destroy(unsigned long) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/basic_string.h:237:9
04:19:48       apache#5 0x559bdfb1d42b in std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>::_M_dispose() /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/basic_string.h:232:4
04:19:48       apache#6 0x559bdfb1d42b in std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>::~basic_string() /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/basic_string.h:658:9
04:19:48       apache#7 0x559bdfb22501 in void std::destroy_at<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/stl_construct.h:88:15
04:19:48       apache#8 0x559bdfb22501 in void std::_Destroy<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/stl_construct.h:138:7
04:19:48       apache#9 0x559bdfb22501 in void std::_Destroy_aux<false>::__destroy<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*>(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/stl_construct.h:152:6
04:19:48       apache#10 0x559bdfb22501 in void std::_Destroy<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*>(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/stl_construct.h:184:7
04:19:48       apache#11 0x559bdfb22501 in void std::_Destroy<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::allocator<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/alloc_traits.h:746:7
04:19:48       apache#12 0x559bdfb22501 in std::vector<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>, std::allocator<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>>::~vector() /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/stl_vector.h:680:2
04:19:48       apache#13 0x559be5515262 in doris::TCondition::~TCondition() /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/gensrc/build/gen_cpp/PaloInternalService_types.cpp:9867:1
04:19:48       apache#14 0x559be5515262 in doris::TCondition::~TCondition() /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/gensrc/build/gen_cpp/PaloInternalService_types.cpp:9866:36
04:19:48       apache#15 0x559be0047ee6 in doris::Status doris::DeleteHandler::_parse_column_pred<doris::DeleteSubPredicatePB>(std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, google::protobuf::RepeatedPtrField<doris::DeleteSubPredicatePB> const&, doris::DeleteConditions*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/delete_handler.cpp:372:5
04:19:48       apache#16 0x559be003ba59 in doris::DeleteHandler::init(std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, std::vector<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetMeta>, std::allocator<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetMeta>>> const&, long, bool) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/delete_handler.cpp:404:13
04:19:48       apache#17 0x559be30ed6e3 in doris::TabletReader::_init_delete_condition(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/tablet_reader.cpp:636:28
04:19:48       apache#18 0x559be30e23d1 in doris::TabletReader::_init_params(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/tablet_reader.cpp:290:18
04:19:48       apache#19 0x559be30e1592 in doris::TabletReader::init(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/tablet_reader.cpp:124:18
04:19:48       apache#20 0x559c129840c8 in doris::vectorized::BlockReader::init(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/olap/block_reader.cpp:210:5
04:19:48       apache#21 0x559c15a4ea09 in doris::vectorized::NewOlapScanner::open(doris::RuntimeState*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/new_olap_scanner.cpp:232:32
04:19:48       apache#22 0x559bfb4acd94 in doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::_scanner_scan(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/scanner_scheduler.cpp:236:5
04:19:48       apache#23 0x559bfb4b10be in doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()::operator()() const::'lambda'()::operator()() const /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/scanner_scheduler.cpp:176:21
04:19:48       apache#24 0x559bfb4b10be in doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()::operator()() const /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/scanner_scheduler.cpp:175:31
04:19:48       apache#25 0x559bfb4b10be in void std::__invoke_impl<void, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&>(std::__invoke_other, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/invoke.h:61:14
04:19:48       apache#26 0x559bfb4b10be in std::enable_if<is_invocable_r_v<void, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&>, void>::type std::__invoke_r<void, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&>(doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/invoke.h:111:2
04:19:48       apache#27 0x559bfb4b10be in std::_Function_handler<void (), doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/std_function.h:291:9
04:19:48       apache#28 0x559be410ed1b in doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/util/threadpool.cpp:543:24
04:19:48       apache#29 0x559be40e6c17 in doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:498:5
04:19:48       apache#30 0x7fdf563e3ac2 in start_thread nptl/pthread_create.c:442:8
04:19:48 
04:19:48   previously allocated by thread T1491 (Scan_normal [wo) here:
04:19:48       #0 0x559bdfb0d53d in operator new(unsigned long) (/mnt/hdd01/ci/master-deploy/be/lib/doris_be+0x3354653d) (BuildId: f170e92ad3c55512)
04:19:48       #1 0x559bdfb33f74 in void std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>::_M_construct<char*>(char*, char*, std::forward_iterator_tag) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/basic_string.tcc:219:14
04:19:48       apache#2 0x559bdfb32705 in void std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>::_M_construct_aux<char*>(char*, char*, std::__false_type) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/basic_string.h:247:11
04:19:48       apache#3 0x559bdfb32705 in void std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>::_M_construct<char*>(char*, char*) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/basic_string.h:266:4
04:19:48       apache#4 0x559bdfb32705 in std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>::basic_string(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/basic_string.h:451:9
04:19:48       apache#5 0x559bdfc326e6 in decltype(::new((void*)(0)) std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>(std::declval<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&>())) std::construct_at<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&>(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/stl_construct.h:97:39
04:19:48       apache#6 0x559bdfc326e6 in void std::allocator_traits<std::allocator<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>>::construct<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&>(std::allocator<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>&, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/alloc_traits.h:514:4
04:19:48       apache#7 0x559bdfc326e6 in void std::vector<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>, std::allocator<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>>::_M_realloc_insert<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&>(__gnu_cxx::__normal_iterator<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>*, std::vector<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>, std::allocator<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>>>>>, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char>> const&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/vector.tcc:449:4
04:19:48       apache#8 0x559be0032206 in doris::DeleteHandler::parse_condition(doris::DeleteSubPredicatePB const&, doris::TCondition*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/delete_handler.cpp:300:33
04:19:48       apache#9 0x559be0047aa3 in doris::Status doris::DeleteHandler::_parse_column_pred<doris::DeleteSubPredicatePB>(std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, google::protobuf::RepeatedPtrField<doris::DeleteSubPredicatePB> const&, doris::DeleteConditions*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/delete_handler.cpp:355:9
04:19:48       apache#10 0x559be003ba59 in doris::DeleteHandler::init(std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, std::vector<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetMeta>, std::allocator<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetMeta>>> const&, long, bool) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/delete_handler.cpp:404:13
04:19:48       apache#11 0x559be30ed6e3 in doris::TabletReader::_init_delete_condition(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/tablet_reader.cpp:636:28
04:19:48       apache#12 0x559be30e23d1 in doris::TabletReader::_init_params(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/tablet_reader.cpp:290:18
04:19:48       apache#13 0x559be30e1592 in doris::TabletReader::init(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/olap/tablet_reader.cpp:124:18
04:19:48       apache#14 0x559c129840c8 in doris::vectorized::BlockReader::init(doris::TabletReader::ReaderParams const&) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/olap/block_reader.cpp:210:5
04:19:48       apache#15 0x559c15a4ea09 in doris::vectorized::NewOlapScanner::open(doris::RuntimeState*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/new_olap_scanner.cpp:232:32
04:19:48       apache#16 0x559bfb4acd94 in doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::_scanner_scan(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/scanner_scheduler.cpp:236:5
04:19:48       apache#17 0x559bfb4b10be in doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()::operator()() const::'lambda'()::operator()() const /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/scanner_scheduler.cpp:176:21
04:19:48       apache#18 0x559bfb4b10be in doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()::operator()() const /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/vec/exec/scan/scanner_scheduler.cpp:175:31
04:19:48       apache#19 0x559bfb4b10be in void std::__invoke_impl<void, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&>(std::__invoke_other, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/invoke.h:61:14
04:19:48       apache#20 0x559bfb4b10be in std::enable_if<is_invocable_r_v<void, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&>, void>::type std::__invoke_r<void, doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&>(doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/invoke.h:111:2
04:19:48       apache#21 0x559bfb4b10be in std::_Function_handler<void (), doris::vectorized::ScannerScheduler::submit(std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScannerContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::vectorized::ScanTask>)::$_1::operator()() const::'lambda'()>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/std_function.h:291:9
04:19:48       apache#22 0x559be410ed1b in doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/util/threadpool.cpp:543:24
04:19:48       apache#23 0x559be40e6c17 in doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:498:5
04:19:48       apache#24 0x7fdf563e3ac2 in start_thread nptl/pthread_create.c:442:8
```