The current dataset writing logic is insufficient (ARROW-12321, ARROW-13590, ARROW-10439, ARROW-12803). This PR moves the logic into a dedicated file and addresses the issues, mainly adding back pressure and size limits.

Reporter: Weston Pace / @westonpace
Assignee: Weston Pace / @westonpace

PRs and other links:

• GitHub Pull Request #10955

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-13650. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}