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The Indignity of Hetero-Inequity
it is inhumane to force your partner to beg for help - and we need to stop normalizing it
Jan 27, 2025
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How to Dedicate a Book About Your Trauma
who gets the credit, the thanks, the page before the first page?
Jan 14
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25 Best Things of 2025
and The Winter Update for the next quarter
Dec 31, 2025
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The 2025 Ta-Da List!
screw the to-dos and things left undone, it's time to celebrate
Dec 19, 2025
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Is Marriage Worth It?
The recording, links, and highlights from the Substack Live are here!
Dec 12, 2025
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If Everything is "Labor", What Makes Life Worthwhile?
When we calculate the worth of all our efforts, even in personal relationships, does the capitalist language strip us of our humanity?
Dec 4, 2025
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The Difference Between a 15-year-old and a 5-year-old
How Megyn Kelly's pedophile math fails beyond belief
Nov 18, 2025
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Celebrating the 7th book birthday for "FED UP: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward"
PLUS a book birthday giveaway for a signed copy of my next book!
Nov 14, 2025
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