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Welcome to Learning to Love: The Story Already Written
This isn’t a beginning. It’s a remembering.
Jun 2, 2025
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Learning to Love
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I Want to Love Loudly.
What my mother taught me without a word
Apr 23
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Living in Limbo - One Foot In, One Foot Out
The fantasy of leaving is what keeps you staying.
Apr 19
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Why Some People Heal while Others Get Traumatized.
Healing was never meant to be a solo journey.
Apr 14
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Staying is Harder than Leaving.
On staying, reactivity and what actually allows intimacy to deepen.
Apr 7
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I’m Done Battling My Body
Jul 10, 2025
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The Most Sacred Part of My Motherhood
Jul 7, 2025
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Searching for Safety in a World Spinning in Space
Jul 19, 2025
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I Had to Learn to Reparent Myself to Be a Parent Worthy of My Daughters
Jul 14, 2025
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Love & Relationships
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I Want to Love Loudly.
What my mother taught me without a word
Apr 23
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Galina Singer
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Living in Limbo - One Foot In, One Foot Out
The fantasy of leaving is what keeps you staying.
Apr 19
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Galina Singer
3
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Why Some People Heal while Others Get Traumatized.
Healing was never meant to be a solo journey.
Apr 14
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Galina Singer
5
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Staying is Harder than Leaving.
On staying, reactivity and what actually allows intimacy to deepen.
Apr 7
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Galina Singer
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You Don't Have a Relationship Problem.
You have a position problem.
Mar 9
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Motherhood & Family
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Smiling for the Camera, Crying Inside
2016 All three girls still lived at home.
Jan 20
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The Girls Didn't Come Home... And I Felt At Peace.
The girls didn’t come for Thanksgiving.
Dec 8, 2025
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My mother turned 81 years old last week.
I sincerely do not remember her ever sounding happier.
Oct 22, 2025
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The Toxic Programming we Inherit from our Mothers
Galina Singer, June 17, 2020
Oct 9, 2025
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From Mother to Wise Woman: Parenting Adult Children with Courage and Grace
By trying to influence my daughters with my advice,
Sep 11, 2025
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Relating To Culture
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When the World Feels Like Too Much
On fear, uncertainty, and remembering what is still here
Mar 31
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When my boundaries became porous
On fear, attention, and what it means to stay with yourself when the world pulls you away
Mar 25
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The Epstein Files and the Truth We don’t Want to Face
A reader reached out last week asking whether I was planning to say anything about the Epstein files.
Feb 9
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The Inherited Helplessness in Relating
I can only meet you as deeply as I’ve met myself.
Jan 21
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We Are Losing the Capacity to Relate.
It’s not even 2 weeks into the New Year and I find myself putting extra effort into remaining grounded and steady.
Jan 14
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Safe To Be Me
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SAFE TO BE ME: #1
SAFE TO BE ME means: I make a point to celebrate my own milestones. This way any outside validation becomes a nice surprise, not a need filler.
Jun 14, 2025
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SAFE TO BE ME: #2
SAFE TO BE ME means: I understand that the part of me that gets triggered in relationships is a younger part of me and needs my compassion, not judgment…
Jun 14, 2025
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SAFE TO BE ME: #3
SAFE TO BE ME means:that I’m okay with not being okay.
Jun 14, 2025
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SAFE TO BE ME: #4
SAFE TO BE ME means:the blood, sweat and tears of my lived experience - my inner knowing - is more valuable to me than any intellectualized concepts.
Jun 14, 2025
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SAFE TO BE ME: #5
SAFE TO BE ME means:’m ready to accept my life “as is,” surrendering control, no longer needing life to look like my illusion of it.
Jun 14, 2025
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