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  <title>Theories and Realities</title>
  <subtitle>By Gaedhal</subtitle>
  <author>
    <email>gaelmcgear@aol.com</email>
    <name>Gaedhal</name>
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  <updated>2025-06-07T03:43:35Z</updated>
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    <title>QAF Reunion! at LA Pride!</title>
    <published>2025-06-07T03:43:35Z</published>
    <updated>2025-06-07T03:43:35Z</updated>
    <category term="qaf"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;a target='_blank' href='https://deadline.com/2025/06/queer-as-folk-cast-reunion-pride-live-hollywood-1236425526/'&gt;https://deadline.com/2025/06/queer-as-folk-cast-reunion-pride-live-hollywood-1236425526/&lt;/a&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:542655</id>
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    <title>Proof of Life!</title>
    <published>2025-04-14T16:21:00Z</published>
    <updated>2025-04-14T23:42:58Z</updated>
    <category term="alyssa"/>
    <category term="dave"/>
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    <content type="html">The end of the school year approaches here at Syracuse&lt;br /&gt;and I wanted to check in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's been a tough year, to say the least. Dave is in&lt;br /&gt;a nursing home. Three years after his stroke it became&lt;br /&gt;obvious that he wasn't getting better and I could no&lt;br /&gt;longer take care of him. Believe me, the paperwork for &lt;br /&gt;Medicaid and everything else involved is overwhelming.&lt;br /&gt;Chugging along alone is also not fun – Dave and I have&lt;br /&gt;been married for over 40 years and this is not how I&lt;br /&gt;saw things turning out, but they never do, do they?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chloe is still doing well, but she's a quiet old lady&lt;br /&gt;now – but so am I!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It looks like Miss Alyssa might be getting engaged&lt;br /&gt;soon! She and the Dude are going to Spain in May&lt;br /&gt;and my sister thinks that's when the engagement will&lt;br /&gt;become official. Hard to believe! I'm sure you all&lt;br /&gt;remember her as the little girl hanging out with&lt;br /&gt;me and Nana over those long summers when I was &lt;br /&gt;writing "Queer Theories" and all those other crazy&lt;br /&gt;stories. Hard to believe the energy I had then!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So that's the update. The stories are all still up&lt;br /&gt;if anyone is interested. I was thinking of starting&lt;br /&gt;a new short fic just before Dave got sick, but then&lt;br /&gt;I just didn't have the time. But maybe one day...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/71814/71814_900.jpg" alt="Me&amp;amp;Dave1981" title="Me&amp;amp;Dave1981" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/71956/71956_900.jpg" alt="Arabica" title="Arabica" loading="lazy"&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:542375</id>
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    <title>Just a quick update!</title>
    <published>2024-08-28T21:05:35Z</published>
    <updated>2024-08-28T21:05:35Z</updated>
    <category term="alyssa"/>
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    <content type="html">A new school year and, yes, I'm still teaching!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mr. Dave is going in for another surgery on his kidneys -- he had&lt;br /&gt;the first on August 5. He's got kidney stones galore and they only &lt;br /&gt;got half of them the first time. I was way too familiar with hospitals&lt;br /&gt;before this, but I'm really sick of it at this point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other thing is that I've been diagnosed with cancer. Actually,&lt;br /&gt;this happened last December and I've been in chem treatment since then.&lt;br /&gt;It's actually not too awful -- it's a blood cancer and it's currently&lt;br /&gt;under control, but not really curable. But I'm not having any side &lt;br /&gt;effects other than tiredness, but I already had that!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Miss Alyssa is out of college and is the manager of a vegan restaurant!&lt;br /&gt;Perfect for my little (not so much!) hippie. And my lawyer sister is&lt;br /&gt;in my wheelhouse -- she's teaching a college course in Civil Litigation.&lt;br /&gt;Now we are both professors! Nana would be so proud.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And Miss Chloe is right here next to me. She's now my Therapy Siamese!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/71453/71453_900.jpg" alt="Chloe" title="Chloe" fetchpriority="high"&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:541994</id>
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    <title>High Time for Ron!</title>
    <published>2024-05-29T06:54:36Z</published>
    <updated>2024-05-29T06:54:36Z</updated>
    <content type="html">If you are a Tony Goldwyn fan (and who isn't?) you are in luck recently.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not only is Tony on "Law &amp; Order" every week as the new D.A., but he's &lt;br /&gt;been making the rounds of all the talk shows discussing the new movie&lt;br /&gt;he directed, "Ezra," starring Robert De Niro. I mean, it's just like&lt;br /&gt;an episode from one of my fics: Ron on "Kimmel," Ron on "The View"!&lt;br /&gt;Ron directing De Niro! And he's looking pretty darn good, too, for a&lt;br /&gt;guy who is 64. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wonder where Mr. Kinney is lurking?</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:541915</id>
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    <title>Gale in London!</title>
    <published>2024-02-23T15:01:42Z</published>
    <updated>2024-02-25T23:38:40Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Gale in London with Rebecca Gang for the premiere of "Hadestown" in the West End!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doesn't he look great???&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/71261/71261_900.jpg" alt="429476805_1091389891965933_3835809760521149034_n" title="429476805_1091389891965933_3835809760521149034_n" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/71119/71119_900.jpg" alt="427188776_243554438810809_1701637285185965584_n" title="427188776_243554438810809_1701637285185965584_n" loading="lazy"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/70703/70703_900.jpg" alt="426742435_430010836354206_7312462389102056934_n" title="426742435_430010836354206_7312462389102056934_n" loading="lazy"&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:541677</id>
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    <title>20 Years!</title>
    <published>2023-12-19T21:59:26Z</published>
    <updated>2023-12-19T21:59:26Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Yes, that's how long I've been on LiveJournal!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been through a lot of ups and downs, but, as Sondheim wrote:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm still here!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cheers --&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gael</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:541288</id>
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    <title>My Fic Pages</title>
    <published>2023-05-24T05:39:09Z</published>
    <updated>2023-05-30T02:39:35Z</updated>
    <category term="gaedhal"/>
    <category term="fanfiction"/>
    <category term="fic links"/>
    <content type="html">Hey Guys!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just a heads up to ask that if you have read &lt;br /&gt;my fics over the years and especially used my&lt;br /&gt;fic pages and the Gaedhal Index created and&lt;br /&gt;hosted by the Incomparable Alix, please check&lt;br /&gt;the bottom of the page. If you want to contribute&lt;br /&gt;to the upkeep of the page there's a Ko-Fi link to click&lt;br /&gt;there. It would show Alix that her work is appreciated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target='_blank' href='http://fortruthis.net/gaedhal/'&gt;http://fortruthis.net/gaedhal/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gael&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks to anyone who donates to keep my webpages up&lt;br /&gt;and running! You guys are great!</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:541118</id>
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    <title>Yes, I'm still here!</title>
    <published>2023-04-02T21:06:09Z</published>
    <updated>2023-04-02T21:06:09Z</updated>
    <category term="gaedhal"/>
    <category term="update"/>
    <content type="html">And no, I haven't gone away. I've just been very quiet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dave had a stroke last April, so it's been almost a full&lt;br /&gt;year that I have basically been a full-time caregiver, plus&lt;br /&gt;teaching and doing all the other stuff that you have to do&lt;br /&gt;to live, especially since we've lost Dave's income.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the beginning of January he was back in the hospital with&lt;br /&gt;sepsis and then in a rehab facility for over a month. So it's&lt;br /&gt;been stressful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel like Justin in "Coup de Foudre"!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, about a year ago I started to outline a new story, the&lt;br /&gt;first since "Coup" but then Life got in the way. Maybe one&lt;br /&gt;day in the Future – if anyone is still left in the fandom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been checking LJ about once a week just to keep up and&lt;br /&gt;I'm also on Facebook if you want to Friend me there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So that's all for now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gael</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:540834</id>
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    <title>That QAF Reboot</title>
    <published>2022-09-25T07:52:56Z</published>
    <updated>2022-09-25T07:54:15Z</updated>
    <category term="qaf"/>
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    <content type="html">Remember that reboot of QAF that was oh so politically correct&lt;br /&gt;that they wanted nothing to do with Our Boys?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, it's canceled.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One short season and out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any thoughts?</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:540626</id>
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    <title>Gale at the 2022 Tribeca Festival, June 12, 2022</title>
    <published>2022-06-14T06:35:09Z</published>
    <updated>2022-06-14T06:35:09Z</updated>
    <category term="gale"/>
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    <category term="update"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/69703/69703_900.jpg" alt="Gale at the 2022 Tribeca Festival (June 12, 2022)" title="Gale at the 2022 Tribeca Festival (June 12, 2022)" fetchpriority="high"&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:540205</id>
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    <title>New Project with Gale as Producer</title>
    <published>2022-06-07T08:12:17Z</published>
    <updated>2022-06-07T08:13:16Z</updated>
    <category term="gale"/>
    <content type="html">Gale and Rebecca, the new Power Couple?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Geena Davis and Adam Lambert Join Andrew Durham’s ‘Fairyland’ Adaptation&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target='_blank' href='https://collider.com/fairyland-cast-geena-davis-adam-lambert-american-zoetrope/?fbclid=IwAR0IksAd_o4gSi7Hjd0aEwAoL9b_oIeNFuZ7ugWnMiqxaVv8Cbd16IX2gsM'&gt;https://collider.com/fairyland-cast-geena-davis-adam-lambert-american-zoetrope/?fbclid=IwAR0IksAd_o4gSi7Hjd0aEwAoL9b_oIeNFuZ7ugWnMiqxaVv8Cbd16IX2gsM&lt;/a&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:539940</id>
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    <title>Dave at Home</title>
    <published>2022-05-29T04:35:05Z</published>
    <updated>2022-05-29T04:35:05Z</updated>
    <category term="dave"/>
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    <category term="summer"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/68773/68773_900.jpg" alt="Dave First Day Home" title="Dave First Day Home" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is Dave's first day at home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He looks rather stunned, but not as stunned as me!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But he's sitting up! I never really saw him do that by himself in the&lt;br /&gt;hospital, but I came back into the room and he was sitting like this!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then our neighbor across the street, Blossom, who is Dave's driveway&lt;br /&gt;buddy (they always talk in the driveway), said that she was going to&lt;br /&gt;bring over a Jamaican meal – and she did!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/69013/69013_900.jpg" alt="Blossom&amp;apos;s Food 1" title="Blossom&amp;apos;s Food 1" loading="lazy"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/69338/69338_900.jpg" alt="Blossom&amp;apos;s Food 2" title="Blossom&amp;apos;s Food 2" loading="lazy"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jerk chicken, red beans and rice, and fried bananas! I think I was more &lt;br /&gt;happy to see food that I didn't have to cook than Dave was to eat it. &lt;br /&gt;(And I ate plenty, too!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, things roll along. It's only the beginning of the summer; it's going &lt;br /&gt;to be a long haul.</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:539665</id>
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    <title>Mr. Dave</title>
    <published>2022-05-20T05:38:46Z</published>
    <updated>2022-05-23T01:36:12Z</updated>
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    <category term="brian/justin"/>
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    <content type="html">It seems that the laid plans, etc., never really work out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was planning to begin posting a new story to go through &lt;br /&gt;the summer. It would be the first since I ended "Coup de&lt;br /&gt;Foudre" back in the ancient pre-Pandemic days. But now it&lt;br /&gt;looks like that won't happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Three weeks ago Dave had a major stroke. He's currently&lt;br /&gt;in the hospital in the rehab unit. He's lost much of his&lt;br /&gt;function on his right side and there's no real expectation&lt;br /&gt;that he'll get it all back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Needless to say, I was just finishing up the semester when&lt;br /&gt;this all happened. Now classes are over and my head is still&lt;br /&gt;spinning. I'm not that great myself – my knee replacement&lt;br /&gt;and chronic sciatica make it hard to lift and carry things&lt;br /&gt;and impossible to lug around a 200 lbs. man. So they are&lt;br /&gt;booting him from the hospital in a week (thanks, Excellus!),&lt;br /&gt;but the reality is that he has to come home sometime and&lt;br /&gt;beyond that is a blank.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whether I'll have the time or the will to work on a story&lt;br /&gt;once this happens is unknown.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So many things are unknown.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thought you'd all want to know what's going on. This is &lt;br /&gt;what's going on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gael</content>
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    <title>Throwing Something Out There...</title>
    <published>2022-04-17T03:39:26Z</published>
    <updated>2022-04-17T22:42:06Z</updated>
    <category term="brian and justin"/>
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    <content type="html">When I finished posting "Coup de Foudre" way back in the Ancient Times&lt;br /&gt;before the Pandemic, I said that it was my farewell to fanfiction. I&lt;br /&gt;was tired, I had some health problems, and the weight of the Pandemic&lt;br /&gt;that came after just was too much for me even to think about writing,&lt;br /&gt;let alone anything else.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's possible that once class ends I will start to post... something.&lt;br /&gt;I have an idea. It's new – not a continuation of any of my stories.&lt;br /&gt;Well... not exactly. But our main cast of characters will be in place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know a lot of people have moved on, but for me LJ is still the best&lt;br /&gt;place to post and get comments. I understand that AO3 is a nice place&lt;br /&gt;and I have a number of my stories up over there. But there's no give&lt;br /&gt;and take. No commentary. No sense of community. I know that community&lt;br /&gt;may no longer be here, but some of you are still here and I feel safe&lt;br /&gt;and sound here, so...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Dream a Little Dream of Me." Coming...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/68393/68393_900.jpg" alt="301BrianMemory copy" title="301BrianMemory copy" fetchpriority="high"&gt;</content>
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    <title>Coming Up for Air</title>
    <published>2022-03-18T04:15:38Z</published>
    <updated>2022-03-18T06:45:02Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">Well, it's been an exhausting winter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Besides continuing all the Pandemic protocols in class – with plenty&lt;br /&gt;of pushback from the students, who are totally done with it! – I've been&lt;br /&gt;feeling crummy. Is there anyone who hasn't been feeling crummy?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then Mr. Dave's brother died. He hasn't been in good health for a&lt;br /&gt;long time and then his wife, Alice, died in August and he just went&lt;br /&gt;down hill fast. So his death wasn't really a surprise, but it was still&lt;br /&gt;a shock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The funeral was one of those things right out of a family dramedy by&lt;br /&gt;Tracy Letts. Besides Skip's children, who include a special needs&lt;br /&gt;son who has never lived anywhere but home, and a brother and sister&lt;br /&gt;who do NOT get along, there was Skip's son that he had in Vietnam&lt;br /&gt;who found him via Ancestry DNA testing! AND the Vietnamese mom, who&lt;br /&gt;has lived in Texas with her American husband since the fall of Saigon,&lt;br /&gt;was there! With the husband and their son!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did I mention the drama?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, I'm exhausted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/68092/68092_900.jpg" alt="275497981_10107215014445066_2998758440647358044_n copy" title="275497981_10107215014445066_2998758440647358044_n copy" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mr. Dave (the guy with the hair) with his niece and nephews. Far left is Kirk,&lt;br /&gt;the Vietnamese son who looks exactly like his father and who no one can figure &lt;br /&gt;out where the Vietnamese part went!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/68129/68129_900.jpg" alt="275422666_10107215071076576_8806957355023983272_n copy" title="275422666_10107215071076576_8806957355023983272_n copy" loading="lazy"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dave with Kirk's Mom, Nga.</content>
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    <title>It's always something...</title>
    <published>2021-10-14T05:49:40Z</published>
    <updated>2021-10-15T05:31:52Z</updated>
    <category term="gael"/>
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    <content type="html">So the semester was going pretty smoothly, which should have been&lt;br /&gt;my first warning. And although I was still having trouble with my&lt;br /&gt;back, I was dealing with it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then on Friday I took a hard spill. In, believe it or not, a barn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got up and shook it off. Things seemed to be okay... until the &lt;br /&gt;next day when I started to feel a sharp stabbing in my side whenever &lt;br /&gt;I bent over or turned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyone wanna guess? Yup, cracked and/or bruised ribs. I'm waiting&lt;br /&gt;for the results of the x-rays, but other than rest and lots of&lt;br /&gt;Ibuprofen and/or Tylenol there isn't anything for it except to&lt;br /&gt;wait for it to heal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I missed class on Monday, but I plugged on and taught today.&lt;br /&gt;Luckily, if I stand upright it's not too bad, but sitting and&lt;br /&gt;moving around, I was gritting my teeth. Thankfully, all my &lt;br /&gt;classes are in the same building, so I don't have to truck all&lt;br /&gt;over campus. And thank God for Mr. Otis who invented the elevator!</content>
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    <title>End of Summer</title>
    <published>2021-08-12T04:19:42Z</published>
    <updated>2021-08-12T04:19:42Z</updated>
    <category term="pandemic"/>
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    <content type="html">I've been lying low, waiting to see what happens this fall before&lt;br /&gt;I have to go back to class.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still no idea what that is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But here's Alyssa. She has no problem diving into Florida at the&lt;br /&gt;height of the surge. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, to be young and fearless. Or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/67541/67541_900.jpg" alt="ZsaZsaofKeyWest" title="ZsaZsaofKeyWest" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I call this Zsa Zsa of Key West.</content>
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    <title>Brian and Justin in Lockdown?</title>
    <published>2021-05-31T21:35:11Z</published>
    <updated>2021-05-31T21:35:11Z</updated>
    <category term="gaedhal"/>
    <category term="fanfiction"/>
    <category term="pandemic"/>
    <category term="post-513"/>
    <category term="brian and justin"/>
    <category term="qaf"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;img src="https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v384/Gaedhal/GaleRandy-Bilboa2014.jpg" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Out of curiosity, which Brian and Justin would you like to see in Lockdown?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Queer Theories" Brian and Justin?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Coup de Foudre" Brian and Justin?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Outsiders" Brian and Justin?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Enchanted Cottage" Brian and Justin?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Angel Stream" Brian and Justin?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How would they be dealing with the challenges of the past year?</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:538251</id>
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    <title>Put-In-Bay!</title>
    <published>2021-05-23T04:29:57Z</published>
    <updated>2021-05-23T04:29:57Z</updated>
    <category term="put-in-bay"/>
    <category term="boat"/>
    <category term="queer theories"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/65000/65000_900.jpg" alt="JimmyBoat-Put-In-Bay-May2021" title="JimmyBoat-Put-In-Bay-May2021" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just in case you're feeling nostalgic for "Queer Theories," this&lt;br /&gt;is my cousin's boat up at Put-In-Bay. First cruise of the season!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doesn't it seem like the Boys would be there about now?</content>
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  <entry>
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    <title>Another Semester Done – But Hardly Normal!</title>
    <published>2021-05-22T02:51:24Z</published>
    <updated>2021-05-22T02:51:24Z</updated>
    <category term="gael"/>
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    <category term="update"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/64763/64763_900.jpg" alt="422Class1-Spring2021" title="422Class1-Spring2021" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only grading final projects is left before we leave the third semester&lt;br /&gt;of the Pandemic behind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm fried. My students are fried. Even Chloe is fried. Only Mr. Dave &lt;br /&gt;remains his usual serene self.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Above is my WRT 422 class. Creative Nonfiction/Memoir. They were aces,&lt;br /&gt;as my old man might have said. This class really bonded and at the end&lt;br /&gt;of this hellish school year they said they were sorry to leave our safe&lt;br /&gt;little cocoon. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I took their picture. It's not a great picture, but I wanted to&lt;br /&gt;remember them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Trevor. Alexandra. Pearse. Grace. David. Toyin. Wilson.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And summer awaits...</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:537827</id>
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    <title>The 19th Anniversary of "Queer Theories"</title>
    <published>2021-04-16T05:22:45Z</published>
    <updated>2021-04-16T05:23:53Z</updated>
    <category term="anniversary"/>
    <category term="bell book &amp;amp; candle"/>
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    <content type="html">So "Queer Theories" is 19 years old.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gulp!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://farm4.static.flickr.com/3326/3200185645_41bfe6feb6.jpg?v=0" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are the links to all my stories, including my&lt;br /&gt;fan page and all the links on Alix's site. These&lt;br /&gt;include "Queer Theories" and all the side stories,&lt;br /&gt;like "Nowhere Man," "Coup de Foundre," "The Angel &lt;br /&gt;Stream," and "The Enchanted Cottage," as well as &lt;br /&gt;all the alternate Streams and Currents, including &lt;br /&gt;"Medium Security," "Bell, Book and Candle," and &lt;br /&gt;"Wayfarers."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target='_blank' href='http://www.fortruthis.net/gaelmcgear/Gaedhalficpage.html'&gt;http://www.fortruthis.net/gaelmcgear/Gaedhalficpage.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target='_blank' href='http://fortruthis.net/gaedhal/'&gt;http://fortruthis.net/gaedhal/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here is the link to the first chapter of "Bell, Book &amp; Candle":&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target='_blank' href='https://gaedhal.livejournal.com/323637.html'&gt;https://gaedhal.livejournal.com/323637.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chapter 1&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many years ago in a far away country of the Old World there lived Three Weird Sisters: Gwynyth, Morgan, and Victoria (who was always called Queenie because she detested the name Victoria). These sisters belonged to an ancient family, the Holroyds, noted for growing herbs, advising the locals on their love lives, and turning their enemies into toads. Actually, the last thing was only a rumor -- witches, which were what the Holroyds were, can't really turn their enemies into toads. However, they can make them think they are toads, which is just as effective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Holroyds had lived in their little Village of Greenwich-on-the-Green for many generations, meeting up with other witches at the Four Corners of the Year to celebrate and dance naked under the stars. Sometimes one of the family would venture to the Great City and Beyond, a few even going over the Sea. But everywhere they went there was trouble. Most places didn't care for witches, for although people liked their herbs and ointments and love potions, they believed that thing about being turned into toads, which often made for uncomfortable situations for the Holroyds and other witch families. Getting burned at the stake or thrown into the local pond weighed down by rocks is tiresome after a while. The Old World was not a tolerant place and the New World, especially locations like Salem in the Colony of Massachusetts, didn't seem much better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But then came the Great War and in its wake the Three Holroyd Sisters felt a change blowing through the world. They heard of places where their kind could gather and live -- discreetly, of course -- without being threatened with either the stake or the pond. And so they took a ship and sailed across the Sea to another Village called Greenwich, which was in the middle of another Great City in the Former Colony of New York. And the sisters thrived there for a number of years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But came the day when Gwynyth and Morgan tired of the Village and the City. They were still country witches at heart, after all. And the two bought a small farm outside that other village of Salem in the Former Colony of Massachusetts and grew herbs that they supplied to their kindred all over the New World. Queenie stayed in Greenwich Village and enjoyed herself -- it was the Roaring Twenties and Queenie had a recipe for bathtub gin that could knock over a bull moose in rut, so she prospered very well, eventually buying a building all her own and renting out apartments in it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And it came that Gwynyth had two daughters, Jennifer and June, while Morgan had a daughter and a son, Gillian and Nicholas. All three girls were beautiful, but Gillian was especially so, with ash blonde hair and lavender eyes. She also had great Power, far surpassing that of her mother, her brother, her cousins, and her aunts. It was rumored that her father had been a powerful sorcerer who had cast spells for the Government, turning the tide of the Great War, and, later, of the Great Depression, but no one was really sure -- fathers in witch families are nebulous things, not easily pinned down. But when the time came, Gillian went off to Wellesley and studied Anthropology, graduating at the top of her class and then traveling around the world -- Mexico, Haiti, the Belgian Congo, French Polynesia -- studying the Ancient Practices. When she came back she didn't return to the farm outside of Salem, but to Greenwich Village, where she opened up a shop in Queenie's building that dealt in tribal artifacts, which proved extremely successful. Her brother Nicky, having flunked out of Yale for making the Dean of Men think he was a toad, soon joined her there. And Gillian, Nicky, and Queenie lived quite contentedly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meanwhile, back at the farm, Gwynyth's older daughter June had settled into the family herb-growing business quite happily, but the younger daughter, Jennifer, was not so content. She hated the farm, she hated Salem, and she hated Greenwich Village. She hated being different. She hated the way people looked away or gave the sign against the Evil Eye when her family passed, yet visited them in the dark of night to buy potions and ointments and charms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jennifer wanted the kind of normal life she saw at the picture show -- houses with white picket fences on quiet streets, mothers and fathers and their children eating dinner together and going to church on Sunday. No cauldrons bubbling in the backyard. No drying herbs hanging from the rafters. No cats prowling along the roof, yowling at the full moon. No dancing naked in the woods. Nothing un-ordinary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And so Jennifer did something very scandalous. Something that horrified the Holroyds and all of the other witch families from Salem to Greenwich Village. Jennifer "renounced." She denied her Powers, her family, and her witch-nature. She ran away to Boston, got a job as a file clerk in an office, and married the son of the boss. An outsider.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Craig Taylor was a man who only vaguely understood that his new bride came from a very strange clan. But they were from England or Wales or some such backward, un-American place, so that explained it. And Jennifer Holroyd Taylor, although incapable of actually falling in love with her husband -- witches can't fall in love, or blush, or cry, among other things -- was as happy as she could be in her lovely house with the white picket fence on a quiet street in another Village called Greenwich, this one in the former Colony of Connecticut.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy, that is, until her beautiful little blond son, Justin, reached puberty.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's when all hell broke loose.</content>
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    <title>New Gale Gig</title>
    <published>2021-03-26T04:07:10Z</published>
    <updated>2021-03-26T04:07:10Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;a target='_blank' href='https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/andie-macdowell-patrick-gibson-set-for-addiction-drama-good-girl-jane'&gt;https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/andie-macdowell-patrick-gibson-set-for-addiction-drama-good-girl-jane&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Hollywood Reporter&lt;br /&gt;Andie MacDowell, Patrick Gibson Set for Addiction Drama 'Good Girl Jane'&lt;br /&gt;9:23 AM PDT 3/25/2021 by Mia Galuppo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Newcomer Rain Spencer leads the cast for the film from Sarah Elizabeth Mintz and Astute Films.&lt;br /&gt;Andie MacDowell and The OA star Patrick Gibson are set to star in Good Girl Jane, which wrapped filming in Los Angeles this week following a 2020 production shutdown due to the pandemic.&lt;br /&gt;Newcomer Rain Spencer leads the cast as a lonely young girl that falls hard for a charming drug dealer and becomes entangled in his meth ring run by Los Angeles teens.&lt;br /&gt;Sarah Elizabeth Mintz makes her feature debut on the Astute Films project. Odessa A’Zion (Grand Army), Jules Lorenzo (Betty), Olan Prenatt (Mid90s), Diego Chiat, Eloisa Huggins and Gale Harold round out the cast with musical artists Yeek and Shakewell.&lt;br /&gt;Astute Films’ Dominique Telson, Fred Bernstein and Simone Williams produced the film, along with Lauren Pratt. Rick Jackson acts as executive producer.&lt;br /&gt;“Drug abuse and depression are afflictions stigmatized by society due to misconception, fear and shame,” said Mintz. “As a person who has struggled through these experiences, and grown stronger despite them, I am committed to telling a story which sheds light on the overwhelming reality of our 'sadness epidemic.'"&lt;br /&gt;“Good Girl Jane speaks not only to this generation but to generations to come — and their families,” said Telson. “We have seen many films about drug addiction, but Sarah Mintz has given us unique insight into the alienation, loneliness, sex, drugs and communal bonds that permeate the culture. It is a riveting ride packed with the kind of realism and truth that audiences will embrace,” added Bernstein.&lt;br /&gt;The Golden Globe-nominated MacDowell, whose recent film credits include firefighter drama Only the Brave and Netflix’s The Last Laugh, is repped by Gersh. Gibson, repped by ICM Partners, has film credits that include The Darkest Minds and Tolkien.&lt;br /&gt;Spencer is repped by Osbrink.  Mintz is repped by Exile Entertainment.</content>
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    <title>One year ago...</title>
    <published>2021-03-08T00:37:01Z</published>
    <updated>2021-03-08T00:37:48Z</updated>
    <category term="pandemic"/>
    <category term="gael"/>
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    <category term="chloe"/>
    <content type="html">One year ago, Saturday, March 7, Dave and I were at the Scotch &amp; Sirloin &lt;br /&gt;for a belated birthday dinner. His brother and sister-in-law, his nephew, &lt;br /&gt;and his niece and her boyfriend were also there. The place was packed &lt;br /&gt;on a Saturday night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next day I went to calling hours for a beloved colleague; it was &lt;br /&gt;also packed with mourners. Packed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Three days later the university shut down. The state shut down, The &lt;br /&gt;country shut down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One year ago this was unimaginable. But everything turned on a dime. &lt;br /&gt;Everything changed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I've had both doses of the vaccine. I'm teaching in the classroom, &lt;br /&gt;but the room is distanced and we all have masks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A year ago who knew about masks?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I have an assortment in different colors and styles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I told my students that one day they'd open a drawer and see their &lt;br /&gt;old masks and think, "Can you believe it?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That day is coming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stay safe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/63652/63652_900.jpg" alt="MaskwithChloe" title="MaskwithChloe" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/63999/63999_900.jpg" alt="Mask1-QAF copy" title="Mask1-QAF copy" loading="lazy"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/64251/64251_900.jpg" alt="MaskwithCalvin&amp;amp;Hobbes copy" title="MaskwithCalvin&amp;amp;Hobbes copy" loading="lazy"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/64456/64456_900.jpg" alt="NewHairNewMask1 copy" title="NewHairNewMask1 copy" loading="lazy"&gt;</content>
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    <title>Filmmakers First Fund -- Gale</title>
    <published>2021-01-07T06:08:18Z</published>
    <updated>2021-01-07T06:24:33Z</updated>
    <category term="gale"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;a target='_blank' href='https://www.screendaily.com/news/filmmakers-first-fund-unveils-first-round-of-awards-exclusive/5155974.article'&gt;https://www.screendaily.com/news/filmmakers-first-fund-unveils-first-round-of-awards-exclusive/5155974.article&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/62974/62974_900.jpg" alt="Filmmakers First Fund (L-R)- Gale Harold, Rebecca Gang, Martin Marquet, Shea Sweeney (fund manager)" title="Filmmakers First Fund (L-R)- Gale Harold, Rebecca Gang, Martin Marquet, Shea Sweeney (fund manager)" fetchpriority="high"&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:gaedhal:536633</id>
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    <title>Just Checking In</title>
    <published>2020-10-11T06:36:24Z</published>
    <updated>2020-10-14T04:16:42Z</updated>
    <category term="alyssa"/>
    <category term="update"/>
    <content type="html">Taking a pause from grading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We're coming up to Week 8 and it's getting dicey...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thought you'd like to see a new picture of Alyssa. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://ic.pics.livejournal.com/gaedhal/1623741/62634/62634_900.jpg" alt="AlyssaSweaterWeather" title="AlyssaSweaterWeather" fetchpriority="high"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know. I can't believe it, either. It doesn't seem that long ago&lt;br /&gt;that we were spending the summer at the Condo with Nana.</content>
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