reference

Iroh Bible:
http://rp-advice-meme.livejournal.com/1174.html?thread=1648278#t1648278

Zuko:
http://rp-advice-meme.livejournal.com/654.html?thread=527758#t527758
http://rpadvicememe.livejournal.com/2140.html?thread=428892#t428892
http://rpadvicememe.livejournal.com/835.html?thread=44355#t44355

proverbs
http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Chinese_proverbs
http://thinkexist.com/quotes/chinese_proverbs/
http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Japanese_proverbs