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Am I Supposed To Know What I Want?

Thoughts written mid–panic attack back in December.

Jan 9 • Deema Lopez

Not My Best Year, But I Learned A Lot

Lessons, reflections, favorite highlights from past newsletters

Dec 19, 2025 • Deema Lopez

Can You Separate Art From the Artist?

Does enjoying the work make you complicit?

Dec 12, 2025 • Deema Lopez

When Did Giving Gifts Become Such a Chore?

How to Make Holiday Gifts Spark Again

Dec 5, 2025 • Deema Lopez

21 Things I Love About People

Qualities that tell me, YES I WANT YOU IN MY LIFE.

Nov 28, 2025 • Deema Lopez

Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?

I Don’t Think So..Thoughts on the Viral Vogue Article (And the Tangent It Sent Me On)

Nov 21, 2025 • Deema Lopez

If You’ve Ever Criticized Your Body, Read This

For Those Who Missed the Miracles While Counting Flaws

Nov 14, 2025 • Deema Lopez

Why Can’t Some People Separate Politics from Friendship?

And why do some people think they should?

Nov 7, 2025 • Deema Lopez

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