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“It’s almost like you didn’t know the book wasn’t finished yet.”
Intro I: "Community." What a funny way to describe it.
Sep 30, 2024
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You will definitely abuse the power you refuse to acknowledge you have.
The dynamism of power dynamics.
Jun 28, 2024
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What would you like to ask a consent educator?
Send in your questions!
Nov 25, 2024
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The Down Side of Being a “Thank You for Telling Me” Person
And that time I was called a greedy bitch.
Sep 9, 2024
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Relationships impede autonomy. So does having a plant.
Are you giving beyond your capacity and resenting others for not reading your mind?
Aug 12, 2024
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Consent Won’t Save Us
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The Limitations of Requiring Enthusiasm in Sex and Beyond
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K asks: How should I respond if I say no to a (likely not serious) request and my significant other complains that I never humor them?
and how does neurodivergence affect consent and boundaries?
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Why make art right now?
Understandably, many of us are wondering why we should, or if we should, make art right now.
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Some uncomfortable truths about people pleasing
What I’m about to say may sting.
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I don’t know anyone who’s polyamorous for the sex.
I don’t know anyone who’s polyamorous for the sex.
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Is it networking or is it community building?
How to build up your creative community
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Consent philosophy exploring the grey space between yes and no.
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