{"id":1858,"date":"2023-12-29T11:14:34","date_gmt":"2023-12-29T11:14:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/?page_id=1858"},"modified":"2025-08-04T08:31:12","modified_gmt":"2025-08-04T08:31:12","slug":"the-book","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/the-book\/","title":{"rendered":"The Book"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"1858\" class=\"elementor elementor-1858\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-acaf8e0 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"acaf8e0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bc03dc0 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"bc03dc0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-baab5d5 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"baab5d5\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b1c2d84 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b1c2d84\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Hold the Line: The Essential Guide to Protecting Your Law Enforcement Relationship<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b70c205 elementor-hidden-phone elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b70c205\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">by Cyndi Doyle <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b3097fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b3097fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"71\" src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/5.0-1000-x-89-px.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1861\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-afb9f1a elementor-widget__width-inherit elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"afb9f1a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>She was frustrated! 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The insight this book gives extremely useful! This book helped me understand Law Enforcement personnel and how to adapt. Made my marriage better than ever! Highly Recommended!\"<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1ac8bf4 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1ac8bf4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1032a6d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1032a6d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e42c4bd elementor-position-top elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-box\" data-id=\"e42c4bd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-box-wrapper\"><figure class=\"elementor-image-box-img\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"200\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/rerre-500x200-1.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-1862 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 500px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 500\/200;\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"elementor-image-box-content\"><h3 class=\"elementor-image-box-title\">PERFECT FOR LEO COUPLES AND THEIR THERAPISTS!<\/h3><p class=\"elementor-image-box-description\">\"...Cyndi Doyle has accomplished the ultimate in our field. She has written a book that both professionals and clients can utilize and enjoy alike.\"<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-67daff2 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"67daff2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-798193f elementor-position-top elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-box\" data-id=\"798193f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-box-wrapper\"><figure class=\"elementor-image-box-img\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"200\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/rerre-500x200-1.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-1862 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 500px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 500\/200;\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"elementor-image-box-content\"><h3 class=\"elementor-image-box-title\">THIS IS A MUST-READ FOR ALL LAW ENFORCEMENT WIVES \/ SIGNIFICANT OTHERS<\/h3><p class=\"elementor-image-box-description\">\"I can\u2019t say enough about this book. Cyndi nailed it when she decided to write a book for the LEO spouses\/significant others. By the time I was halfway through the book I had completely changed my perspective and understanding of my husband and his career...\"<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bab1a74 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"bab1a74\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6754814 elementor-position-top elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-box\" data-id=\"6754814\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-box-wrapper\"><figure class=\"elementor-image-box-img\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"200\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/rerre-500x200-1.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-1862 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 500px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 500\/200;\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"elementor-image-box-content\"><h3 class=\"elementor-image-box-title\">VERY USEFUL ADVICE AND INFORMATION FOR LEO COUPLES<\/h3><p class=\"elementor-image-box-description\">\"I found myself relieved to learn that I am not alone in my experiences being married to an LEO, and I laughed in a sort of cathartic way at several of her anecdotes. More importantly, I was able to have a series of very short but helpful conversations with my husband after reading it...\"<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-722a5d2e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"722a5d2e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1e1521c\" data-id=\"1e1521c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-794a8baa eael-dual-header-content-align-left elementor-widget elementor-widget-eael-dual-color-header\" data-id=\"794a8baa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"eael-dual-color-header.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"eael-dual-header\">\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"title eael-dch-title\"><span class=\"eael-dch-title-text eael-dch-title-lead lead solid-color\">About Cyndi Doyle:<\/span> <span class=\"eael-dch-title-text\">Therapist &amp; Wife of a LEO<\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6b12e471 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6b12e471\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>As a licensed therapist and LEO spouse, I THOUGHT I understood the unique struggles in a police marriage. There was so much more that I didn\u2019t know! No one told us that the very training that kept him safe every day also would cause our disconnection.\u00a0Because I don\u2019t want you to struggle with the same learning curve, I created Code4Couples<span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-weight: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-weight ); background-color: var( --e-global-color-6133694 );\">\u00ae<\/span><span style=\"font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif; font-size: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-size ); font-weight: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-weight ); background-color: var( --e-global-color-6133694 );\">, so you can have the education and tools to keep your relationship Code 4!<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e8ecf3a e-con-full e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e8ecf3a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInRight&quot;}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c977df4 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c977df4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f95149 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"6f95149\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1396b96 elementor-position-left elementor-vertical-align-top elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-box\" data-id=\"1396b96\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-box-wrapper\"><figure class=\"elementor-image-box-img\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"151\" height=\"143\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Screenshot-2023-12-18-at-19.02.11.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-1403 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 151px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 151\/143;\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"elementor-image-box-content\"><h3 class=\"elementor-image-box-title\">Cyndi Doyle<\/h3><p class=\"elementor-image-box-description\">LPCS, NCC, CDWF, CCISM\n<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-603c3a0a elementor-align-left elementor-mobile-align-justify elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"603c3a0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/about\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Read More About cyndi +<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-50db33be\" data-id=\"50db33be\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c3667f1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"3c3667f1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7bac2f04\" data-id=\"7bac2f04\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-20716302 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"20716302\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2500\" height=\"1669\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Cyndi-66.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-1402 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 2500px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 2500\/1669;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-db1b83c elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"db1b83c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"684\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/cyndi-80-new.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1897 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 684px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 684\/1024;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f7872af e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f7872af\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8eccda4 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"8eccda4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0014900 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"0014900\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c9ea00 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4c9ea00\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">As Seen On:<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-05548a8 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"05548a8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fe68b57 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"fe68b57\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb25a8a elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"bb25a8a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesquadroom.net\/episode144\/\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"534\" height=\"534\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Squad-Room-Blk-Vectorv3.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1577 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 534px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 534\/534;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-929fe6c e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"929fe6c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-639abec elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"639abec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/policingmatters.podbean.com\/e\/dr-cyndi-doyle-on-the-why-behind-law-enforcement-relationship-problems-and-how-to-fix-them\/\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" data-src=\"https:\/\/code4couples.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/policing-matters-logo.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1592 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 500px; 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Whether that\u2019s a spouse, family member, or friends. Bobby\u2019s mom even read the book and told us it was helpful for her because she now understood why he had changed over the years. It is for any support system, but also for officers to understand what is going on with them.<\/p><p>The book is based on psychology and research. I took all the information from books I had read, and I thought &#8220;Where are the gaps? What is the information I didn\u2019t have?&#8221; \u00a0The gap for me was what to do about the connection between law enforcement culture and how it affected my relationship. From there I needed to know what to do about it and how to fix it. I have broken up the book in a way where it is clear on what to do with all the spillover, the biological impact, and the psychological impact the job has on your relationship.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f5386f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f5386f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Real-life stories to make an impact<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aa6dfb4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"aa6dfb4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>When I was writing the book, I was nervous. Mostly because I used a lot of stories from my relationship. Ironically, one of the biggest compliments I have gotten about the book is that the weaving of our stories really personalizes it and that people weren\u2019t able to put the book down! The experiences that are in the book, give it more credibility because they actually happened. There were no hypotheticals. It was all real stuff.<\/p><p>I asked Bobby what it was like for him as he read what I was writing. \u201cEnlightening. Surprising. Once I understood what you were writing about, I would go &#8216;I remember that&#8217; and then there were oh no moments. I was like &#8216;Wow, that\u2019s how she felt when that happened. I did not know and probably didn\u2019t care at the time.&#8217; That\u2019s the honest truth. I wasn\u2019t embarrassed. Some of it was just new to me. Then I could understand why you felt the way you felt.\u201d<\/p><p>In the book, I talk a lot about how I just didn\u2019t share things. Here\u2019s a story that I didn\u2019t share in the book that I think about frequently. It really influenced me not to reach out to my husband. I think he was in his first or second year as an officer and I was at the dry cleaners picking up my dry cleaning. My car battery died so I called Bobby just to share the information. Well, he responded with, \u201cwhat the f$%k do you want me to do about it. I have to go to work.\u201d I was so mad because all I wanted was a comforting statement and some acknowledgment. Instead, I got such a hard pushback of an aggressive statement. That call was such a monumental moment for me to express when I was struggling. That\u2019s when I stopped sharing things. It was a slow slide of me not telling him things. That\u2019s something that I take ownership of throughout the book and make sure that in my writing there is no blame on either party. Our stories are written in a way where it states what he did, what I did, and then what we both did to get through the situation.<\/p><p>After doing the research, I can now explain to another spouse what is happening behind a response, or a reaction based on the conditioning of the job. For instance, in the story about my car battery. Bobby was so focused on getting ready for work and what he needed to do to prepare his mindset for his shift. When I called, I interrupted the start of his hypervigilance cycle and in return, he forgot his gun at home. Now after writing this book, I can take a step back and go \u201cOkay that\u2019s what was going on in his brain to give me a reaction the way he did, and he forgot his gun because I interrupted his before-work ritual.\u201d It doesn\u2019t mean that either reaction was ok but understanding the <em>why <\/em>was important. Why did that happen and what can we do about it? I have the responsibility to extend the benefit of the doubt or the understanding. I can understand what part of the hypervigilance he was in. I also still have the responsibility to tell him the situation sucked and not hold it against him. Bobby has the responsibility to take ownership of what he said.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9ac44be elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9ac44be\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What to expect <\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b607c35 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b607c35\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The 1st chapter talks about the impact of the challenging factors of the job that are more obvious. Sleep, stress, missed time, connectedness, shift work, etc. Things like, \u201cI have to keep the dogs quiet while he sleeps.\u201d The 2nd chapter is where I go into what I call \u201cThe underpinning\u201d This is the below-ground stuff. The psychology behind what is happening. This is where I discuss hypervigilance and the OODA loop. The next chapter is where I dive into the spillover. While we can have all this information, how does it spill over into the relationship? How does it spill over onto the family, and what is the impact it has on them and the relationship?<\/p><p>From there, I talk about intimacy. The definition I like to use is into me you see. This doesn\u2019t necessarily mean intercourse. It means closeness and connection. I discuss the conflict between having the intimate connection you need in a relationship and the spillover from the conditioning in law enforcement. From there, I go into Gottman\u2019s work and the conflict in the \u201cRelationship House\u201d and the conflict with intimacy. Then we talk about the solutions. What do you do about it? How do you fix it?<\/p><p>I give techniques that anyone can implement. You don\u2019t have to be a counselor or therapist to do these techniques. If you understand the basics, you can ask the questions and offer guidance. Do both people have to work on the relationship? The reality is that one person can influence the relationship positively and influence their partner to work on it as well. Over the years, I realized I needed to become more vulnerable and needed to stop walking on eggshells. I had to show up in a different way. A relationship isn\u2019t 50\/50. 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I am walking away with a high quality curriculum, that is ready to use immediately. I am beyond grateful for the opportunity to participate in this course.\u201d\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__footer\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<cite class=\"elementor-testimonial__cite\"><span class=\"elementor-testimonial__name\">Jill Newman. Warriors Rest Foundation<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__text\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\u201cThis has been a fantastic class and extremely relevant for brand new officers as well as the crusty veteran and their spouses. I would highly recommend this training to anyone looking to expand their understanding of the law enforcement profession and its challenges as well as ways to prevent many of the pitfalls we often fall into throughout the career.\u201d\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__footer\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<cite class=\"elementor-testimonial__cite\"><span class=\"elementor-testimonial__name\">Sgt. Joseph Adreoli<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__text\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\u201cAn invaluable course where the data presented really drives home to the need to embrace mental health and all it affects.  A lot of self awareness came up for me and being able to identify behaviors in myself and those I love.  I love it!\u201d\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__footer\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<cite class=\"elementor-testimonial__cite\"><span class=\"elementor-testimonial__name\">Sgt. Boise PD<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__text\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\u201cThis training gives the trainer actual material to bring back to immediately implement! The training is engaging and loaded with valuable information!\u201d\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__footer\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<cite class=\"elementor-testimonial__cite\"><span class=\"elementor-testimonial__name\">Rixie Albright, LCSW, CFRC<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial__text\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t \u201cWhen looking for a speaker for our annual first responder wellness training, we wanted someone that could connect with our first responders and their significant others. After reading Cyndi's book and listening to her podcast, we knew she would be the right person to talk with our first responder. 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