Wednesday color testing
Emil's results on the color test
Your Existing Situation
"Organized and detail-oriented, he has a very precise and methodical manner. He needs relationships which offer him understanding, respect, and approval."
-I have to be methodical at work after all. The relationships part makes sense too since I do have those kinds of bonds in my life.
Your Stress Sources
"Not a team player and is unwilling to be involved in most activities. In the past he was over involved and now emotionally drained. Due to his fear of over involvement, he now chooses to remain uninvolved with the activities around him. "
-Correct to the being over-involved part (still don't know how I survived being a student) but this has not drained me. I am not uninvolved at all. I'm the initiator.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. He is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity.
"Insists his hopes and ideas are realistic and achievable, but needs encouragement and support. His self-centeredness can cause him to take things too personally."
-The thing I'm seeking relief from is one pesky client. Well, I give it two weeks and he'll be out of my hair. As for the sexual activity part....that's accurate. Enough said.
Yep, I think my ideas can happen; they just need the right timing and push, I guess. I'm a reformist or even revolutionist and I know these things don't come easily. Admittedly I do get self centered, but I'm learning not to take some things as personal affronts
Your Desired Objective
"Needs peaceful surroundings. Looking for relief from stress, conflict, and arguments. Tries to control potentially harmful situations and arguments by treading lightly. Is sensitive, emotional, and has an eye for detail."
-I'm not sure about the 'peaceful surroundings' part since I do thrive in intense situations, but I do like being conflict free. I definitely tread lightly nowadays; wouldn't want a repeat of what happened with my family some years ago. The last sentence is the most accurate so far.
Your Actual Problem
Needs to find a stable and peaceful environment which will free him of the worries that are preventing him from achieving the things he wants.
-Yep, if "stable and peaceful" means not having dangerous cases and worrisome clients, or overly dramatic friends. But without these, what's my life going to be like? Boring.