Five Roles

1) caretaker - I took care of my mother and sister for most of my life.  I don't take care of them anymore.

2) maid - I was a maid for quite a while.  I had time to think, but otherwise I hated the job. 

3) daughter - I have a mother and I was her daughter...

4) sister-  I listened to her stories, helped when she was in trouble and...  we got along sometimes.

5) girlfriend- There is someone out there who considers me his girlfriend, and it's a little hard to get used to.