m_benitez wrote in charloft

Friday fives

Emil's list for this: 

5 loved ones---and I think my parents go without saying, so let's add to this:
-Marce
-Andrei (my eldest child)
-Alix (my youngest child)
-Bernard (the brother I'm closest to)
-Dominic (my only nephew)

4 friends
-Darren (Of *course* I can't forget this guy)
-Ray (my favorite law school friend)
-Sabine (another good law school friend)
-Wena (one of my co-writers in college)

3 enemies
-Carlos (we used to be friends, but we never repaired our rift)
-James Medina (technically Marce's enemy, but he hasn't forgiven me for 'stealing' her from him)
-Don Martin Aldaba (the guy responsible for basically one year of trouble for me)

2 times you won 
-Won a union case against the Tang family
-Got in jail on a false charge, and succeeded in getting the case thrown out!!

1 time you lost
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Aside from that incident with Marce? The *very* first time I lost a friend to political activism. One of my fellow debaters, Yvette, had been writing rather radical articles in the college paper. Somehow the military got wind of that, and kidnapped her one day. We all tried tracking her down, but she never surfaced. That changed my life a great deal.