{"id":457704,"date":"2016-11-21T15:07:04","date_gmt":"2016-11-21T15:07:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/breslev.com\/%d7%9c%d7%9c%d7%90-%d7%a7%d7%98%d7%92%d7%95%d7%a8%d7%99%d7%94\/peace-in-the-world\/"},"modified":"2023-05-10T11:06:47","modified_gmt":"2023-05-10T11:06:47","slug":"peace-in-the-world-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/breslev.com\/457704\/","title":{"rendered":"Peace in the World"},"content":{"rendered":"

Over the thousands of years the Jewish nation has been in exile Hashem has demonstrated His virtue of patience. Many of us feel we also have been patient. \u00a0We, the Jewish People and Hashem are a team, a partnership formed to complete the world and bring it into balance. Hashem is in exile with us to this day. Peace in the world has not yet been achieved. There still exist broken homes, broken spirits, broken relationships, and broken lives. Violence and crime happen every day. Yet we go on. We need Hashem, and if He is to have a Kingdom of loyal followers, He needs us, too. Yet we keep saying to Him, \u201cShow me and I\u2019ll trust You.\u201d \u00a0We all want the revealed goodness and peace now. That\u2019s human nature. Yet G-d seems to be responding \u201cTrust Me, and then I\u2019ll show you.\u201d \u00a0We continue to struggle with Hashem.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The Almighty knows the best way to achieve peace. When we talk to Him and study His Torah, we get answers to our pressing personal questions. We learn that putting G-d and others first helps us all. We let go of old grudges. We concede as a sign of strength. We bolster our emuna<\/em> (faith) and bitachon <\/em>(trust). When we believe that the good will come, that is when it will. Hashem is a loving Father Who tells us that light will follow darkness, day follows night, our \u201cgoing\u201d precedes our \u201ccoming\u201d (Psalm 121) and love<\/u> and joy<\/u> follow turbulence. The reward for our patience and our faith will be the physical evidence to support our confidence. When we put the trust ahead of the proof, we are in a proper position to ask Hashem to \"\"help us, because we know<\/u> that He will. We trust in His love completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Let\u2019s do what we want Hashem to do. What we give, we get back. Doing kind things for others turns the kindness back to us. For example, when we have problems with family members who are not on the same spiritual level as we are, we accept them with love unconditionally. This brings unconditional love to us. Anger is like idol worship. Anger is one letter shy of \u201cdanger\u201d and counters the tranquility we desire. Then there is no peace. When we criticize, we seal our own fate and the fate of others. When we desire Hashem\u2019s compassion, we work to mirror that trait. Hashem shows us the same empathy and kindness we demonstrate to others and to Him.<\/span><\/p>\n

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There is only one major ingredient to living in peace, especially in marriage, and that is ignoring the faults of others and correcting faults within ourselves. If we see a certain imperfection in others, and it bothers us, it is most often because we possess it too. Hashem holds up a mirror to us so we can see ourselves. When we work on ourselves and change, the world around us changes. \u00a0When we demonstrate unconditional love and pray for others, we shift the balance toward peace. Speaking on behalf of others with kindness and concern will do more to encourage peace than cajoling, explaining, lecturing, insisting, judging, obsessing, convincing, and coercing. And don’t forget \u2013 peace begins at home\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

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Silence is golden when we struggle to think, speak, and do only that which is positive and good. \u00a0If we were to complain about those we love, chas v\u2019shalom<\/em> (G-d forbid) we invite the accusing angels to bring the message of complaint to the Heavenly Throne. So instead, we discuss with Hashem the good points of others. Complaining and blaming are natural human tendencies which all of us would do well to avoid. Since we are expected to rise above our nature, we strive to cast aside the yetzer hara\u2019s<\/em> ploy to get us to complain against those whom we love but are having trouble liking. We speak to Hashem from the heart, emphasizing the good things that our loved ones are doing. Then, we are in a position to ask for G-d\u2019s help in opening their hearts and minds to Torah truths. This paradigm shift helps to proliferate positive energies in marriage and in the world at large. When we downplay weaknesses, deficiencies, and shortcomings, we promote energies of peace and good-will.<\/span><\/p>\n

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We cannot change others directly, but we can change how we relate to them. We gather more bees with honey than with vinegar. When we sing the following song to Hashem, we bring Him joy because we remain in a high vibration of unconditional love, satisfaction, and happiness in the present moment, eagerly awaiting more blessings. So the song goes: \u201cHodu Adonai Ki Tov, Ki L\u2019Olam Chasdo\u201d <\/em><\/strong>translated as \u201cThank You Hashem for Your Goodness and Kindness\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Keeping our emotions in check and living in the positive vibration of gratitude helps bring blessings to our homes and, by extension, to the world in which we live. In a world fractured by dissension, by focusing only on the good we harness the power to transform chaos into peace.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Over the thousands of years the Jewish nation has been in exile Hashem has demonstrated His virtue of patience. Many of us feel we also have been patient. \u00a0We, the Jewish People and Hashem are a team, a partnership formed to complete the world and bring it into balance. Hashem is in exile with us … Continue reading “Peace in the World”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":62109,"featured_media":1243065,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[15178],"tags":[16369,16438,20834,16460,24775],"author_post":[16091],"new_serie":[],"class_list":["post-457704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marital-harmony","tag-emuna","tag-marriage","tag-jewish-people","tag-shalom-bayit","tag-bitachon","author_post-lori-steiner"],"acf":{"intro_text":"

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