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The intro, rundown, and heauxcabulary you need to get acclimated!!

May 17, 2024 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

She Oiled My Butt and Wished She Was Half Black

STIs, $44 & a White Woman's Wish

Apr 16 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

I saw the person who roofied me twice last weekend

On grief, the body, and being caught off guard

Apr 14 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

Mom Ideology (And Other Things I Learned from a Mayoral Candidate)

Nithya Raman came to tell me something messy. She delivered.

Apr 9 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

Face Lickers, First Kisses, and Learning You're an Adult

Bernadette Beck came through with hot jelly beans, dating horror stories, and the inner child work that will make you cry in the best way.

Apr 3 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

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Sep 5, 2025 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

Messy Mondays at Night! (feat. V Spehar)

Apr 22, 2025 • Brandon Kyle Goodman and V Spehar

Heated Rivalry: Unpacking the Authenticity Backlash (Part 2)

Dec 19, 2025 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

Lexapro Diaries: Through the Storm of Starting Antidepressants

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she used a stranger's face razor and I can't stop thinking about it

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Mar 26 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

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On chasing happiness, facing my fears, and finding my mother staring back.

Mar 20 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

I Was Whoopi Goldberg's Assistant!

New Episode of Tell Me Something Messy

Mar 19 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

The 30s Reckoning: When Who You Were No Longer Fits w/ Foster Wilson and Cesar Cardona

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Mar 13 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

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Messy Mondays at Night Replay!

Mar 10 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

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Clarity is Sexy: First Love Breakups, Family Boundaries & Saying It Plainly w/ Charlie Sprinkman

New Episode of Tell Me Something Messy!

Mar 6 • Brandon Kyle Goodman

You Gotta Be You: The Courage to Be Yourself in A World That Doesn't Always Hold You

A 'Bi Babes' Q&A about my first book, self-acceptance, feeling safe In your body, and navigating compassion and boundaries when family relationships…

Mar 4 • Brandon Kyle Goodman and Zachary Zane

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Messy Mondays

Messy Mondays

Shame-free conversations about relationships, sex, identity, and mental health, through pop culture and lived experience. Weekly essays, live streams, and community.

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