
When we decided we had to give Minou up I felt mixed feelings about it. I wanted him to be happy and not stressed by the other cats, but I love him and felt attached and I didn’t want him to think I abandoned him. I know cats probably do not “think”, but I felt like a traitor.
This morning I saw Minou running away from Sammy who was again chasing him for the fun of it. I knew we were giving him up for a good reason. We packed everything in the car and brought him to his new home. He was dubious. He was actually afraid, shaking even. I sat beside him on the floor for a long time. He went in and out of the carrier several times and then planted himself by the screen door where he could look at the birds and smell the air.
After he had explored the room awhile and seen where all of his things were located and looked more relaxed. I hugged and kissed him goodbye while his eyes were riveted on the birds. Nik and I left. Later, Nikki’s aunt said that after we left, Minou cried for about five minutes, but then he quieted down and let them pet him. Poor fellow. I know he doesn’t understand but I hope he will be happy soon. As for me, well, I am sad today. Everywhere I look around the house and in the garden I expect to see him.
I suppose the girls are trying to cheer me up. So far they have been pulling flowers out of vases, throwing the petals around, chasing each other everywhere, and banging on the walls to get my attention. They are cute and fun and I love them but they are not Minou.
April 11, 2009 at 6:43 pm
I am so sorry.
It’s can be so had to do the *right* thing for the one we love.
You and Nikki are kind, kind caretakers.
April 11, 2009 at 6:43 pm
Missing my ‘r’ in hard.
April 11, 2009 at 8:11 pm
What a difficult decision for you two ~ your intentions are for the well-being of Minou and it sounds like he is in an excellent place where he can relax. Nice that you can keep in touch and find out how he’s doing ~ and of course, visit 🙂
April 12, 2009 at 12:14 am
You’ve made a choice with your heart. You love him and want him to be happy. Oh and you get to spoil him when you visit! He’ll be fine. I’m sure a less stressed cat will make you smile. Hugs xxx
April 12, 2009 at 7:31 am
I’ve not surprised that you and Nikki are sad as I would be too! I’m sure that you’ll soon come to see that it was the right thing to do, especially for Minou.
That’s a lovely photo of him! xx
April 12, 2009 at 8:36 am
It’s bittersweet. So good to know he is in a loving home without those other two chasing him about; so sad because you miss him. Being a cat, he will probably adjust before you do. It’s wonderful you can still see him whenever you like.
April 12, 2009 at 8:52 am
Natalie – thank you for your kind words.
Glo – Yes :), I want to go visit him. I plan to see him in two weeks. I would go sooner but I think I need to let him be with the new owners for awhile first.
Daffy – thanks, yes, I know you are right. He will be fine. It is nice to hear someone else say it though.
Flighty – thank you friend. It is amazing how one can become so attached but there it is. I love my animals! And it has been nice to “share” them with my blogging friends.
Sara – thank you for your insight. He probably will adjust before I do! I am still going to hug him when I see him. 🙂
April 13, 2009 at 5:53 pm
Oh No! I am so sorry you’ve had to part with the little boy…but if it’s for the best, then so be it. Also, it’s a mixed blessing in that at least he will be with Nik’s aunt so you can visit him.
April 13, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Liv – yes, I am very glad I can still see him occasionally. I know I should probably wait to see him but I can’t. I am going over next Saturday.