The Feminist Love Coach

Welcome to my musings from a Feminine perspective. I write about how to stay sane in polarising times, tenderly reveal our personal and collective blindspots, challenge our ideas about power and may inspire you to think a little differently.

Sharing my raw, authentic, sensual self, with you. Ultimately to help you to do the same.

Third flip Desire Literacy: Desire is the operating system of how life creates more of itself. It's generative paradoxes shape every level of existence. Build tech, culture and relationships for the new era from a foundation of emergence, not extraction.

I’m Nicola a sex and relationship therapist sharing my authentic insights and tips and recommendations for enjoying nourishing, rewarding and sexually alive relationships at every life stage.

A living experiment of queer desire in midlife and beyond. NSFW.