She wasn’t there when I got home. That’s the first thing I remember clearly—not her face, not her voice, just the absence. The house was too quiet, with the wrong people in the wrong rooms. The housekeeper would take my coat. The cook would give me something to eat. But I’d stand in the hallway afterward, waiting, listening for her footsteps upstairs, the sound of her door opening.

It never came.

I was small enough that I didn’t have words for it yet. Just the feeling. Like the air had been sucked out of a room, like everyone knew something I didn’t, and no one was going to explain it to me.

When she came back—weeks later, months, I don’t know—she was different. Thinner. Moved slower. I’d try to make her smile. Bring her things. Show her the drawings I’d done at school. She’d look at them and nod and say something soft, but her eyes were always somewhere else. Past me. Through me. Like she was seeing something I couldn’t reach, no matter how hard I tried.

I learned early: You can’t trust someone to stay. Even when they’re in the room, they might not really be there.

My father was different. He was always there, always watching.

He’d take me to the construction sites when I was old enough to walk without holding his hand. Significant buildings are going up across the river. Steel skeletons rising out of the mud. Men in hard hats are moving like ants across the frames. The smell of concrete and sweat. He’d stand with his arms crossed, watching them work, and I’d stand next to him trying to copy the way he held himself—straight-backed, solid, like nothing in the world could move him.

One day, a foreman came over, nervous, explaining why they were behind schedule. Weather. Supply problems. Some excuse. My father didn’t let him finish.

“You’re done,” he said. Not loud. Not angry. Just flat. Final.

The man tried to argue. My father turned and walked away. By the time we got back to the car, security was already walking the guy off the site.

“You understand?” my father asked me on the drive home.

I nodded. I understood.

If you couldn’t deliver, you were nothing. If you made excuses, you were nothing. The world was divided into people who got things done and people who got left behind. Winners and losers. Killers and killed.

I learned: Never be the one making excuses. Never be the one who gets walked off the site.

My brother was soft. That’s the word my father used. Soft.

He wanted to do something else. Not the business. Something different—he wanted to fly. He talked about it at dinner once, excited, trying to make it sound good. Trying to make my father see it was a real plan.

My father didn’t look up from his plate.

My brother kept talking. Explaining. His voice is getting smaller. My father chewed, swallowed, and took a drink of water. Never looked at him.

When my brother finally stopped talking, my father said, “You’ll work in the business. Enough of this nonsense.”

That was it. Subject closed.

But my brother kept trying. Kept flying. He kept drinking, too. Started slow—a drink after work, then two, then during. I watched it happen. Watched my father’s face get harder every time my brother’s name came up. Watched my brother shrink. Get quieter. Stop showing up to Sunday dinners.

When he died, I was fourteen. My father got the call during a meeting. I wasn’t there. But from what I know about my father, he probably listened, said “I see” twice, hung up, straightened his tie, and went back to the presentation.

Afterward, alone in the car, he said, “Weak men don’t survive. That’s just how it is.”

That was the only time he mentioned it.

I learned: Don’t be weak. Don’t need things my father didn’t value. Don’t explain myself. Don’t let anyone see me needing anything I couldn’t take.

The softness my brother had—whatever made him want something outside winning—that was the thing that killed him. I made sure I didn’t have it.

School was different after they sent me away. Harder. The other boys were meaner, and the adults were meaner, and if you couldn’t handle it, you got crushed. That’s all it was—learn fast, or you were done.

I learned to handle it.

There were hierarchies. Older boys who ran things. Younger boys who learned fast or got beaten for being slow. I wasn’t the biggest or the strongest, but I learned how to make the other boys uncertain. How to talk fast. How to turn things around before they could land on me. How to make sure someone else was always the target.

Sports helped. I was good at baseball. Good enough that the coaches noticed. Good enough that the other boys had to respect it, even if they didn’t like me. They didn’t like me. I could tell. But that was fine. Respect mattered more than being liked.

Being liked meant being soft. Being liked meant caring what they thought.

I learned: Don’t care what they think. Make them care what you think.

I’m sitting alone when I decide.

That’s always been true. Every decision that mattered—and there have been many, more than people realize—I made it alone. Because asking for advice means you don’t know, and if you don’t know, that’s a weakness. My brother was weak. That’s what happened to him. He kept asking, kept explaining, kept trying to make people understand.

It killed him.

So I sit with it. The thing they say I can’t do. They’ve been saying it for weeks now, months really, the same people who said I couldn’t win, who’ve been underestimating me since—my father understood this. My father could look at someone and know right away. Winner or loser. Killer or killed. He knew.

They keep talking. Legal concerns, they say. Relationships. Consequences. They use these words like they mean something, like they’re reasons I should stop. But they’re not reasons. They’re excuses. And excuses are what losers make when they can’t deliver.

My mother never came when I needed her. Not her fault—she was sick, I understand that now—but still. And my father only paid attention when I won. When I dominated. When I proved I was the killer, not the one getting killed. My brother tried to be something else. Something softer. Wanted to fly. And my father—you could see it in his face. The disgust. The disappointment.

My brother drank himself to death trying to escape that look.

I learned not to need escape. I learned to be the thing my father respected. The winner. The one who takes what he wants and doesn’t apologize and doesn’t explain and doesn’t ask permission from people who’ve spent their entire lives waiting for me to fail.

The boys at school tried to break me: older boys, bigger boys, meaner boys. But I learned how to make them uncertain. How to hit first. How to make sure someone else was always the target, always the one getting broken. Sports helped—I was good at baseball, good enough that they had to respect it even if they didn’t like me. They didn’t. But that was fine—respect matters. Being liked is for people who need things.

I don’t need things. I take what I want.

The decision is made. Has been made. Maybe it was made a long time ago when I was small, standing in that hallway waiting for footsteps that never came. Maybe when I watched my father hang up the phone after hearing my brother was dead and straighten his tie and go back to the meeting as if nothing happened. Maybe the first time I stood on a construction site and watched my father fire someone for making excuses, and understood that the world divides into people who deliver and people who get walked off the site.

It doesn’t matter when.

What matters is I know what I have to do now, and nobody—and these are the same people who’ve been wrong about me at every turn, believe me—nobody is going to tell me it’s too far or too much or too dangerous. Dangerous for whom? For them? To hell with them. They’re not the ones who had to learn that love is conditional and weakness is death, and the only way to matter is to win so completely that history has no choice, no choice at all, but to remember your name.

I don’t care if they love me or hate me. I only care that they never, ever look away.

I want to win so much that history has no choice but to love me.

A heavy knock on the door cuts through the silence.

I don’t look up. I wait for them to enter. I wait for them to realize I am the one waiting.

The door opens.

“Sir?” the aide says. Voice trembling slightly. “The cameras are ready, Mr. President. It’s time to deliver your decision about Greenland.”

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