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my brain has 47 tabs open.
hi, my name is lyss, and my brain is full.
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she drives me crazy.
on birthdays (and the recurring urge to burn my life to the ground).
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giddy up.
on fire horses and ordinary tuesdays.
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it's complicated.
on still believing in the happy ever after.
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somehow it's february and we're supposed to be thriving already.
on urgency culture, winter bodies, and starting anyway.
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slow it down.
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i have a list.
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mind the gap.
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pretty. darn. slow.
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why we keep listening to the same songs, eating the same lunch, and calling it self-preservation.
on repetition, overwhelm, and shrinking your world to cope.
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mid-sentence.
on attention fatigue, the world’s deliberate fade to grey, and the feeling that nothing ever really ends.
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quiet, please.
on culture, the analogue pull, and loving what you love.
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why modern life rewards urgency.
on performance, pressure and the weight of it all.
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what happens when your nervous system doesn’t believe the storm is over.
on vigilance, safety, and the body’s reluctance to trust.
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There are a couple of days at the end of every year that don’t really belong to anything, or anywhere.
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