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Lead with AND: The Secret to Resilience and Results in a Polarized World Paperback – January 14, 2022

by Tim Arnold (Author), Donald Miller (Foreword), Colin & Justin (The Design Duo) (Contributor),
4.9 out of 5 stars (46)
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“This book will help you realize why managing tension by embracing Both/And thinking is the one skill every leader needs to succeed.”
Donald Miller, CEO, StoryBrand

“Why settle for one value when you can have two? For us, leadership success is all about Both/And thinking!”
Colin McAllister and Justin Ryan, HGTV and BBC Television Stars, The Design Duo

“Lead with AND is an invitation to bring your whole self to the leadership table, and to make a significant and sustained impact. I hope you accept it!”
Allison Alley, President and CEO, Compassion Canada

As a leader, you’re committed to making a difference, leaving a mark, and making the world a better place. But when it comes to moving things forward, does it often seem like you’re fighting an uphill battle against broken systems, impossible demands, and unreasonable people?

Leadership development expert, Tim Arnold, has spent over two decades helping professionals manage complexity, increase resilience, and deliver results within organizations such as the United Nations, Compassion International, Royal Bank of Canada, Allstate Insurance, and Siemens.

This secret is to move beyond the traditional Either/Or approach to solving problems and embrace the transformational power of Both/And thinking. When you can successfully leverage the following six leadership tensions, you will break through to a new level of resilience and results:

Become optimistic AND realistic.
Embrace change AND preserve stability.
Become profit focused AND purpose driven.
Have expectations AND extend grace.
Care for others AND care for yourself.
Become confident AND remain humble.

Every leader deserves a way to successfully stay in the game and enjoy the adventure! Your work is important, and right now, the world needs your leadership more than ever. Learn how to rise above polarity, division, and conflicting values. Join effective leaders from around the world who have the courage to lead with AND.

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  5. ISBN-10
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  6. ISBN-13
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"This book will help you realize why managing tension by embracing Both/And thinking is the one skill every leader needs to succeed."

Donald Miller, CEO,

StoryBrand

"Why settle for one value when you can have two? For us, leadership success is all about Both/And thinking!"

Colin McAllister and Justin Ryan,

HGTV and BBC Television Stars, The Design Duo

"Lead with AND is an invitation to bring your whole self to the leadership table, and to make a significant and sustained impact. I hope you accept it!"

Allison Alley, President and CEO,

Compassion Canada

About the Author

Tim Arnold has spent over two decades helping leaders manage complexity, increase resilience, and deliver results within organizations such as the United Nations, Compassion International, Royal Bank of Canada, Allstate Insurance, Toyota, and Siemens.After running both a for-profit business and a homeless shelter, Tim leverages his real-world experience to help organizations pursue both profit and purpose. His work focuses on helping leaders unleash the superpower of Both/And thinking in an Either/Or world.Beyond leadership and team development, Tim is an avid fisherman, world traveller, and really bad hockey player. His biggest accomplishments are being dad to Declan and Avryl, and husband to Becky.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Tim Arnold
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ January 14, 2022
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 224 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1777901405
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1777901400
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.56 x 8.5 inches
  • Best Sellers Rank: #2,012,539 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.9 out of 5 stars (46)

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Tim Arnold has spent over two decades helping leaders manage complexity, increase resilience, and deliver results, with clients that include The United Nations, Royal Bank of Canada, Allstate Insurance, Compassion International, Toyota, and Siemens. After running both a for-profit business and a homeless shelter, he leverages his real-world experience to help organizations pursue both profit and purpose. Tim’s work focuses on helping leaders unleash the superpower of Both/And thinking in an Either/Or world.

Beyond leadership and team development, Tim is an avid fisherman, world traveller, and really bad hockey player. His biggest accomplishments are being dad to Declan and Avryl, and husband to Becky.

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4.9 out of 5 stars
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  • Kate Masson
    5.0 out of 5 stars Navigating Complex Conversations? This is THE book for support and ideas!
    Reviewed in the United States on February 25, 2022
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    Reading through "Lead with AND" was worth every minute of time invested. I had so many "aha" moments around my own practical leadership situations and gleaned concepts that are applicable in both the marketplace and non-profit management world. I am grateful for the author's creative and unique approach to leadership and will be carrying these ideas into meetings this coming week. I can't wait to see situations shift around me! This world is so caught up in polarized thinking - it's never been more important to lead from a place of possibility in perspective.
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  • Jane Kise
    5.0 out of 5 stars Both/And for Leadership Success
    Reviewed in the United States on February 24, 2022
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    This book is pithy, practical, and inspiring—a masterful resource. Author and consultant Tim Arnold has provided leaders with true, relatable stories of the power of AND thinking in action, tools for gaging your own use of several key polarities, or tensions, such as Realism AND Optimism, and strategies to lead with the best of these interdependent yet seemingly contradictory sets of values. Okay, I’m the author of an award-winning book on using polarities in leadership and I LEARNED a ton from these pages. Add it to your at-your-fingertips resources, identify which AND you need to concentrate on right now, engage with your leadership team in conversations about your next steps in leading with AND. With current longings to return to normal after the pandemic AND the fact that things will continue to change, this is the perfect time for studying and using the ideas in this book.
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  • ckern
    5.0 out of 5 stars An incredible fresh -- and vital -- understanding of how to lead
    Reviewed in the United States on February 25, 2022
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    In a world of polarization, Tim Arnold provides an incredibly important perspective (and leadership skill) by helping us understand the tensions that we often face as well as how to manage them. Each chapter is filled with not only Tim's story and experiences but outside voices who have learned how to live and lead with "and" as well providing both the empathy and authority that makes Tim a fantastic guide in this space.
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  • Fay K
    5.0 out of 5 stars Essential for Leaders
    Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2022
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    This book captures what Tim Arnold has learned from his years of being a successful leader, helping leaders be successful, and knowing successful leaders. He combines uncommon wisdom with common sense. It is a book well-worth reading.
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  • J. Burgess
    5.0 out of 5 stars We need more of this right now
    Reviewed in the United States on February 23, 2022
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    I got to hear Tim Arnold speak on this topic before the book came out, and I was struck by what an important message it is for this moment. I was excited to read the full treatment of this topic in the book. We don’t realize how often we are operating with “either/or” thinking, but the stories in this book helped me to see what it looks like in action. It’s so subtle and habitual, I miss it. It’s often what is making me feel stuck, but I usually don’t realize it. Making a conscious shift to “and” really does change everything.
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  • Amazon Customer
    5.0 out of 5 stars Game changer - both personally and professionally!!!
    Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2022
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    The concepts in this book are simple yet powerful!! Since reading this book, I have found myself using both/and thinking and language in my relationships at work and at home. The response has already been a game changer!
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  • April S Hawkins
    5.0 out of 5 stars This book is what the world needs right now!
    Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2022
    Format: Paperback
    I am a peaceful kind of person and I struggle as a leader when conflict arises, especially when it involves people I'm close to. So many people think they have the RIGHT answer to fix a problem. However, life is layered and complex and many things can be true at the same time.

    Because of the concepts in this book now when conflict arises in my life or at work, I am more grounded. I have the awareness to bring all of the layers into the light. This helps everyone be seen and heard. It also helps my team move forward to problem solve with everything out in the open instead of issues going unchecked and unaddressed.

    This is a must-read for anyone trying to lead in today's world where everyone thinks they have THE answer.
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  • Barry Johnson
    5.0 out of 5 stars Smart, caring, and clear guidance for any leader.
    Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2022
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    I liked the simple application examples for addressing difficult issues leaders face every day.
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  • Christy Bloom
    5.0 out of 5 stars Fresh Take on Critical Leadership Skills - this will resonate with leaders trying to step it up
    Reviewed in Canada on April 14, 2025
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    The author names and describes 6 key 'tensions' that all leaders need to know how to navigate to be successful. As I read each new chapter based on one of these tensions I was like "YES - this is a challenge we face that just.won't.go.away'. The content in this book really resonated with me and some of the tough leadership lessons I learned along the way - I wish I had read this earlier in my leadership tenure.

    I think this book is an excellent read for new or seasoned leaders, as it offers a fresh and critical leadership perspective to what is already out there in the leadership book space. My main takeaway is that you can't treat these 'tensions' as problems to solve with a right and a wrong answer. The author lays out how this will always eventually backfire. The book introduces a helpful framework so that you can actually leverage 'managing' the tension for success, instead of mistakenly trying to 'solve' it.
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  • RFM
    5.0 out of 5 stars A must read in today's world!
    Reviewed in Canada on March 7, 2022
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    Tim's book is perfect timing for the world we find ourselves in today. He encourages us to not see tension as a bad word and to lean in with the mindset of "AND". A good leader can manage tensions and Tim gives great practical advice from his years of experience. I appreciate his use of story telling and interviews with others. This is the type of book you will find yourself revisiting. It is a resource for business leaders and also helpful in our personal relationships.
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  • JanC
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Great Read...But Not Just For "Leaders"
    Reviewed in Canada on February 28, 2022
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    While some books on the subject of leadership can be somewhat repetitive and dry reading, both Tim's writing style and the material he is presenting definitely keep the reader engaged. I like how he relates his own experiences, as well as those of other successful leaders, through interviews, who also use the "AND" approach.
    After working for many years in business settings under several leaders and with numerous varied clients, I can see what a difference this approach could make in the workplace. Where groups of people are working together tensions are inevitable, but what a difference it would make if people knew that their leaders were taking their thoughts and opinions into consideration; even if they ended up going in a somewhat different direction, just the fact of knowing they cared enough to consider them and try to understand where they were coming from would make such a difference. I think "Lead With AND" is a book that a lot of employees would love their employers to read! But I found that the impact of this book does not end there...the implementation of these concepts can also have a positive effect on our everyday living, especially in these times when we are encountering such strong and varied opinions in all areas of life.
    I would highly recommend this book, not only for leaders but for anyone who desires to make a positive difference in their own life and in the lives of others. Kudos to Tim on yet another job well done!
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  • Jeff
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Resource Never Needed More Than Now!
    Reviewed in Canada on February 19, 2022
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    Just when I thought our world couldn't get any more divided, it seems people have found a way to become even more polarized. This has made the past season the most challenging ever for leaders, never mind for life. Thankfully, Tim Arnold has provided a next-level gift in Lead With "AND" to help us navigate the most delicate and difficult times of our generation. There are countless places you can look to be told that you ought to stimulate more unity. And there are limitless books, podcasts, and webinars that teach that leaders should manage change well. What separates Tim and his writings is that he actually teaches us how. He provides a practical framework, real-life stories, and everyday examples to help us live and lead effectively in precarious times. The pace of life these days and the rate at which things change may tempt you to believe you don't have time to read yet another book. But this isn't just another book; it's a practical guide to help you navigate the very changes and challenges you face everyday in life and leadership.
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  • VR
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read
    Reviewed in Canada on February 28, 2022
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    I love the approach Tim has taken by incorporating respected, seasoned leaders stories and practical approaches into helping us understand how to recognize and manage each of the six healthy tensions that leaders face. This book is a reminder of how easily is it to get stuck on the downside of not managing these tensions well. We all desire to lead flourishing, growing, profitable teams and yet it is so easy and natural to fall into the bad habit of operating from our biases and neglecting different perspectives that allow us to manage tensions in a healthy manner. Tim reminds me through the stories, maps, personal experience and expertise that if I want to lead well I need to not only recognize these tensions but also to be aware of the red flags when I am neglecting where we are living within the tension.
    This book is golden for leaders and the teams they manage but just as helpful with regards to our personal lives and the way we interact with those we love. Tim’s personal experiences and humility provide the reader with a feeling of safety to enter into their own stories and blindspots and get the most out of his teaching.
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