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They are always going to hate us. Stop seeking straight approval.
Queer people policing other queer people's queerness will never make the straight world accept you.
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Sex-favorable asexuality *is* asexuality.
Nov 10, 2025
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You (or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love My Asexuality)
Nov 27, 2025
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Asexuality is front and center in "Purpose"
Jul 25, 2025
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LGBTQ+ People Are Not Going Back.
Dec 3, 2024
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They are always going to hate us. Stop seeking straight approval.
Queer people policing other queer people's queerness will never make the straight world accept you.
Jan 15
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Cody Daigle-Orians
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The allofication of fictosexuality
When asexuality is removed from ace microlabels, we get harder to see.
Jan 8
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Deconstructing what intimacy and pleasure looks like... with Aubri Lancaster
In this One on One, I talk intimacy and pleasure with sexuality educator Aubri Lancaster.
Dec 22, 2025
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Cody Daigle-Orians
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"I'm ace, and my friend is asking my husband about our sex life. What should I do?"
We can (and should) assert our authority over who gets to be involved in our aspec lives.
Jan 5
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New year, new ways to think about community.
The start of a new year is often a time of big goals, big promises, big expectations for the year to come.
Jan 1
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What do you find most rewarding about being aspec in your day-to-day life?
Some thoughts on finding gratitude for your aspec identity day-to-day.
Dec 18, 2025
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