Robert took me on a good ol' Friday night date--went to a matinee showing of Bridesmaids at my sister's urging (where was this movie when I was planning my wedding? I would've felt better, to be reminded really, weddings often make people feel weird and crazy and alone and distant and self-absorbed or worse, competitive and it sucks but it's to be groaned and laughed about later, it's not that anyone is really a freak, including you) and then had hamburgers and shakes at the new spot down the street. It was like being in some '50s time warp, or like we were 14 years old. Awesome.